How?

[Guest Babytitan]

How do you deal with no attention from your cg?

 

It’s practically ripping me apart not having any attention from my Daddy cause of training for new job and working during the nights, so he doesn’t message me at all, not even a goodnight he just acknowledges messages and doesn’t reply, how do u all deal with it?

[RavenclawPrincess]

Stay busy! I'm in the same boat, actually. My daddy is away on military business for a long time so I've had to learn how to be self sufficient. Chat is a nice spot to interact with people but doing things like crafts, cleaning, reading, watching movies, playing games, etc. during your free time should help

[LittleTinyMe]

I feel that way a loot.  What I tend to do is ask my cg if they wanna see what I do throughout the day.  And in doing so, I send messages with pictures showing what I'm doing.  

Hopefully that might help! <3

[Daddy'sLittlePrince]

I guess I have an advantage here. I have a full time job so I work 10+ hours a day to keep me busy while daddy is out of town. But when I'm home I was going nuts. That's when I found this site! I usually draw or browse Facebook or sleep if he isn't messaging me. Edited May 14, 2018 by Daddy'sLittlePrince

[LittleKitten13]

Draw, color, clean your room, write something, play video games.  That's what I like to do in my spare time, whether I have papa's attention at that point in time or not.

I'm glad that you are being understanding of WHY he isn't talking to you though.  I've seen other littles complaining without any visible understanding of what their caregiver is going through.

[Guest SUeB]

i wouldn't deal with that. i would say bye bye. Sorry, but nobody is so busy that they go silent for days.

[Guest Arc]

I have to agree with SUeB. It's reasonable to be too busy to constantly be there, but unreasonable to not reply at all. It takes a few seconds to say goodnight. And even though it would be late, I'm sure he could find a few minutes to reply to whatever you say in the day. 

 

I went through something like this a while ago. But we had it set up so that I had things to do for him during the day and I would message as I did them. And then he would reply at night and I would get the message in the morning. There's no excuse to not reply at all imo. Maybe you could talk to him about making an effort to just reply when he can?

[His Kitten]

It like literally makes me feel alone and he messages me when he's not here by me but it's not the same because then i start thinking about him and all that and it makes me feel like he doesn't love me and makes me cry....