What should I do

[Guest alexander2265]

Hi everyone, 

 

 Im posting this here also so ... My names Anne and I have been a little now for a while and I still live with my parents so Im in the closet still. Ive had many different daddies all who have ended up in heartbreak and a lowering of my self-confidence. I never seem to be good enough to please someone. Im sad that its me and that im a terrible little and should just go away cause no one has ever loved me for who i truly am. I dont know if anyone else feels this way. I hope not cause I feel terrible. But what am I to do Im so depressed and I dont want to hurt anymore daddies. Please help me . I dont know if I can be in this darkness forever.

 

Your fellow little 

Anne

[Guest Mr.Stuffykins]

Hello there Anne

 

I want to start off by expressing my sincerest apologies. I'm sorry that they have made you feel like anything less than amazing. I'm sorry that these experiences have hurt you to the extent that you yourself fail to see how valuable you are.

 

I want you to realize that you can not torment yourself by believing that you are entirely to blame. Breakups/Heartbreaks should give you the experience and knowledge to better yourself and way of thinking. You need to take into account the role BOTH of you played that led up to that point. You need to address the mistakes that HE made as well. Do not completely disregard his actions and take full responsibility as if it is only your fault.

 

Furthermore, you should look at your stance from a different perspective. If things didnt work out then thats because they weren't the right guy for you. The perfect guy for you wouldnt have broken your heart, he wouldnt have made you feel insecure, and wouldnt have made you feel the way you feel now. YOU are perfect now and you just need a daddy to show you that. You let others opinion, actions, and thoughts influence and dictate the way you see yourself. The right daddy for you will look beyond this distorted image you have of yourself and love you for you ! stay strong and optimistic. Dont ever give up - especially on yourself.

 

You'll find your perfect daddy and he will show you that all of this was worth it. He will show you and make you feel the way you should be treated.

[Guest Arc]

Just because you aren't compatible doesn't mean you aren't good enough to please someone. It doesn't mean you are a terrible little or that you will ever love you for who you are. It just means you haven't found the right one, and very few people ever find the right one straight away so you most definitely are not alone. <3 

[Guest EveryNameHere]

I think you should'nt give yourself the fault. It's normal that you're not compatible with everyone and that it takes time to find the right person to be with!

Don't give up on yourself and continue looking for the right one! Eventually he will come and every doubt will be blown away and you'll just be happy with him :3

[Big Daddy D]

Not everyone wants a Dominant Daddy, and not all Daddy's want to be dominant. I've always known that I wasn't wired the way most men are. I'm not capable of being dominant or even bossy with someone I care so much about. I want to spoil her, not punish or humiliate her. Don't allow yourself to be controlled by a Dom if that's not what actually makes you happy. There are so many different spectrums of the dynamic, but DDlg gets all the glory for some reason. If it's not your thing, it doesn't have to be. I know I'm the minority, but there has to be other daddys like me. People often tell me that my choice to dedicate everything I have to just making her feel happy, safe and loved seems one sided and unfair. It's not, that's what I enjoy. It makes me happy to know how happy I make her. I'll go downtown for over an hour during a diaper change, and not expect anything in return. It drives her wild, and knowing that is satisfaction enough for me. My little knows how to give back too, and she does; when she wants. I never ask, I never beg, but Daddy never feels like he isn't loved back, just as hard as he loves his Princess. Daddy/lg relationships don't always have to involve BDSM type play. Edited May 12, 2018 by Big Daddy D