Needy and clingy - Advice

[Guest Little Otter]

OK so firstly I am assuming most, if not all, littles are clingy or needy to some degree. Just comes with the territory, but sometimes I feel like I'm *too* needy.

 

I mean, if I like someone I get upset when I don't hear from them after like 30 minutes. An hour or more... I kinda spazz a bit. Conditions apply, like if I know they're asleep or something then I just generally miss them. Otherwise I am always concerned that I'm inadequate, or they don't like me, or whatever. 

 

Is this too much? If so, how do I manage those emotions? How needy/clingy are you as a little?

Edited May 5, 2018 by Little Otter

[pixelkitten]

Hihi!

I used to also have the problem of being too needy, especially when I was long distance with my daddy. Now that we live together it is much more manageable. 

However, it's good to keep in mind that it's great toconstantly want attention from your CG, but if for them it is a full time job and they have other responsibilities on top of that, it can get overwhelming.

A few things that helped me when I needed attention  but I was unable to get it (military daddy), I made friends with other littles on a kik group and spent time with them, I got lost in a tv show

that is really immersive (for me it was Lost Girl, every episode was like an adventure and I could watch like 5 of them before I realized it's been 2 to 3 hours), or find a crafty hobby where you make 

stuff. I always color for my daddy when I miss him, or make little creations out of perler beads. My last one was Roronoa from One Piece and it took me six hours!! You could also do acts of service. When I didn't work, I washed all of the clothes, cleaned the house and cooked so daddy's life was SO easy when he came home from work.

 

PS. I would love some littles to play with, so send me a message!

Then you can come together with your CG and get all the love and attention, and you get a chance to miss them.

[Guest Little Otter]

Well shes not my CG. Were dating and stuff atm. But yeah thats good advice, Ill just harass my little friends. And yeah Ill msg you I love makin new friends