Being little while having kids

[Guest AlisonS23]

Any other littles have any kids? I have a 4 and a 5 year. Their names are Sophia and Benjamin!

 

How do you balance being little and having kids?

[Guest Bookish-daddys-girl]

Daddy and I have three small children, all are under 7 years old. I don't really have to balance anything. I feel like being a little helps me connect with them more. When Daddy is here, he is the only "adult" in the house, but when he is working or has to be gone, I hover around 15-16. My best friend described me as more of an over-protective older sister than a Mother. I take care of their needs and we bake cookies, play board games, craft, etc. I suppose it is easier because I have more of a middle space than little space. Obviously, things like punishments or sexual things are left in the bedroom. Although, punishments like writing lines and my chores and daily tasks are normalized, as they are non-sexual. I even call Daddy "Daddy" in front of our children. In the children's eyes, Mama has chores and homework just like us, Mama likes to do the same activities as us, and sometimes Mama is grounded and punished just like us. When you stop thinking of DD/lg as something dirty, it becomes part of everyday life. Some people see it as only a kink and that's fine. But others see DD/lg as a 24/7 lifestyle. Neither one is wrong, you just find ways to make it work.

[Guest AlisonS23]

Yes I agree fully! So with my kids yes it definitely helps me connect with them more easy. That’s how it was when I had a daddy living with me. It was much easier to be little knowing he was there to be the authority. However at the moment I am a single mother.

Meaning I have to be the authority. Sometimes being the authority actually pulls me from little space.

 

You should kik me it’s cuppycake013 ❤️

[Guest Bookish-daddys-girl]

I'm sorry but I don't have kik. Feel free to message me on here though.

[Guest AlisonS23]

Will do

[Junebug]

I am also a single mom and it 100% takes me right outta little space sometimes (i.e. today) so I definitely understand how you feel. I don't really have a solution thought, just mutual struggle :/

[Guest AlisonS23]

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