Where's the line?

[Guest New Kitten]

Hi, I'm a new little and new to the world of DDLG. I wanted to ask the community, where do you cross the line in little space? You see all those romanticized pictures on Tumblr saying how a Daddy should always been there for his little and take care of them. But as adults how do you set up boundaries? Should Daddys always text their little back, for instance, if he's out and she's at home scared in bed? Do you ever tell your little to not be so little? I kind of want to leave this open ended and see what everyone has to say. Thank you for anything you contribute!

XOXO

[DaddyJsPrincess]

Very well said! Weird as it seems, I feel DD/lg takes a certain level of maturity to handle. Yes, we want to have our little needs met but we also need to put in the effort and care it takes to maintain a healthy relationship. Selfishness is not cute. It's terribly abusive.

 

I feel that D/s in general lays a really heavy emphasis on selflessness in a relationship and somehow a lot of littles are managing to miss that. I'm just one person but to me that's the whole point of submission- allowing your Dom/me to free you from your ego.