Preferences, ddlg and conflicts of interest

[TheDaddyest]

Do any of you like a certain part of CG/l but either there is some conflict in the fetish it's self for you or a conflict in the people who also enjoy it?

 

For example... I really like diaper girls, and abdls (on occasion) but I don't really meet that many girls who like to be diapered who also meet the other qualifications for me to pursue them. Diaper girls, especially abdls in my experience have the fetish so strongly it gets in the way of getting to know them, or if I do get to know them it swallows the relationship whole after a while. I really like having deep conversations sometimes and love watching adult or scary movies and it's not possible with an abdl. Idk thoughts? 

 

Over my time as a daddy the whole diapers thing has become a lot less important because of these facts and I don't see it as a nessesity anymore. But gosh they do look cute still!

[DustBunny93]

Me personally I like diapers, but I am not always in little space, so it doesn't get in the way of things and take over. Meaning that I can be little and wear my diapers and have a paci but I can still watch things like scary movies.

[TwilightSparklez]

It all comes back to compatibility and keeping the search going. Eventually, you will find the person who is your match, as long as you keep searching. Could happen tomorrow, possibly or it could take three years or more. The world is a very big place. Don't lose sight of your heart's desire just be patient and it will happen when it is meant to.

[Guest Looby-Lou]

......Over my time as a daddy the whole diapers thing has become a lot less important because of these facts and I don't see it as a nessesity anymore. But gosh they do look cute still!

 

I wonder if you have answered your own question here? 

It sounds like previously the diaper aspect was VERY important to you, so maybe that's why you found yourself with girls who were heavily into it, perhaps as you say to the exclusion of wanting to ever be adult. And perhaps you (without realising it) had encouraged these girls to be like that around you.

Now you say it's become a lot less important to you, but still an attraction. So maybe now you will be drawn to, and also attract, girls who are interested in a more diverse relationship with adult interactions and also some DDLG...hopefully with diapers included!

 

Keep looking and I hope you soon meet someone you feel compatible with