Talking to friends about dd/lg/being a daddy

[Raw]

Today was perfect, it was so heartwarming I had to share it with you guys because I feel truly happy right now

 

I pretty much spend the whole afternoon with two of my best friends . We had a lot of fun all day long and decided to go out in the evening. The place we went to has a huge outside area and a bonfire, the atmosphere is great and it has a really cozy feeling! Anyways.... one of them met a friend of his and I was left talking with my other friend. I'm sorry if its confusing, I'm just very excited . We ended up talking about how much we appreciate each other and how glad we are to have each other. Needless to say, it got very emotional, very quickly

 

I had the urge to open up to him about being a Daddy. He's someone I know, is very understanding and non-judgemental but rather vanilla. On top of being one of my best friends ... but I was still nervous. I ended up talking to him about it for over an hour and it went even better than expected. Nothing has changed in our friendship, we still like each other just as much, however now I got to share something deeply personal with a great friend. It felt so good talking about it with someone you trust. It was refreshing, especially because I've just recently reconnected a bit more with "the daddy in me" . On top of that I told my other friend aswell, I felt like I wanted both of them to know. It went just as well! I can't describe how glad I am to have them in my life and I'm crying happy tears just thinking about it :') 

 

If there was any moral to the story I would say, I you want to tell your friends about dd/lg and what it means to you, don't be shy or hesitate! Some might be way more understanding than you would think

[ProfessorDaddy]

This made my day. Thank you for sharing. And I'm glad you not only had a wonderful day, but a cathartic experience overall.

 

I'll temper that by saying that mileage might vary for some. Dependent on their friends' views, and even regional/cultural differences per levels of acceptance.

 

Regardless, it's still nice to hear that not only did you connect emotionally with your friends (as in communicating how you felt), but that you were completely accepted, as you are. 

 

Glad you had a wonderful day, Raw. And that you have such wonderful friends.

[Guest Little Otter]

Omgosh this story is so wholesome <3

 

I told my two closest friends and my big bro Im a little. They all thought it was weird at first, but after discussing it they thought it was kinda cool. Especially the little space stuff!

 

Im so glad youre able to open up with your friends, I feel like you get closer to ppl when you dont have to hide important aspects of your life.

[Guest Lissy Lu]

That's the most awesome thing ever!!! I don't really have any close friends, mainly because of my anxiety, but that sounds so amazing