Hello ladies and gentlemen

[Guest The Phantom]

 I'm here to counter certain social expectations you may have come across. Since you are so smart you most likely already know this, but I'm going to put this out there anyway. Your worth as a person must not be measured by how you dress or by how many (or few) sensual "conquests" you've had. They don't define you. As an individual, you are much more than that regardless of what the foolish may claim. Whatever you do, NEVER settle for anything less than honor and respect.
On another note, there seems to be a confusion between gentleness and weakness. But that is far from the truth. True power is the ability to operate with tenderness yet stay firm. The blending of softness and stability is essential for being genuinely strong. It's okay to feel sadness, as it's part of being human. Then when you recover you may rise again once more to fight. And remember: Sometimes tasks too big for one person are more efficiently done when help is accepted so don't think that it makes you weak for asking. Even Superman has use for allies.

[Panda God]

... What they said. ^^^

[Guest DeOriginalMittens]

hehe I agree Phantom, that's why I'm not scared to cry at all. I cry even during movies. That's why it always bothers me when I see people do what others want, they live a life that others want them to live, not one they want to live. I had some male friends who went to the gym to get "ripped" so they could be attractive to women. However he HATED going and dreaded it everyday. I was like, dude, be yourself! stop giving in to people, be strong and do what you want, I know you want attention from women, but that isn't genuine and those superficial ways of getting it won't ever last because if someone better comes along you are left instantly. You want the attention of someone who won't leave even if their ideal person came up to them. Someone will will love you, be loyal and love you and all your flaws. And I saw this to a lot of my female friends too because they complain about having to do this or that. Well don't! Because all men and women are beautiful how they are naturally, just be yourself, and be proud of you and be strong! don't give into social expectations or requirements. Just be you <3