New to Community/ Wanting a Daddy & Friends

[CuteAndLittle]

Hey everyone. Sorry for the overly long topic title. I’m not quite sure how to go about this and please correct and inform me whenever possible about the dynamics of a little/daddy relationship, friendships, that are nonsexual.

Is it possible to have a daddy and be a little BUT have it be nonsexual? I am in a committed relationship with my live-in boyfriend. I’ve began to realize over the years that I enjoy being a little(not sure if using correct terminology) my boyfriend shows subtle signs of treating me like a little but we are not fully in that headspace. If anything I’m usually more of a mommy to him (please remember he does not know anything about this community and has never participated in it and would not be interested in it as I am). I talk in a baby voice whenever I’m happy, feeling sad, or being pouty and bratty. I want to take things a step further into the age play and begin dressing up, using toys, stuff animals, etc.

I usually work 40hours a week (temping so it’s flexible) I have my own car and my own place. I would like to feel completely taken care of, loved, supported, spoiled and nurtured sometimes since I have a pretty stressful, bland life. I do have a boyfriend, I am looking for a nonsexual daddy who can help guide me into the community, if that makes sense.. is here anyone else who is also in the same situation? Do you feel it wouldn’t work or is considered inappropriate? How would you go about a successful agreement between daddy and little in this situation?

[CuteAndLittle]

Also, I am not sure if anyone is familiar with Binkie Princess and Stevop from YouTube but I really treasure their type of relationship. Their videos are what made me want to get into it. I like the innocence and pure kind of relationship they have (aside from Jessica and Stephen being in the porn industry and such that I do not want)

[Guest McLeodLot65]

There certainly are nonsexual Daddies and Mommies on the forum, although they seem to be in the minority.

[CuteAndLittle]

Hopefully I can find one! who’s understanding of my situation.. I will keep looking and be optimistic!

There certainly are nonsexual Daddies and Mommies on the forum, although they seem to be in the minority.

[LittleKitten13]

My papa and I are completely non sexual with our dynamic.  When I'm big we might get more sexual, but any time I'm in little space, there is nothing sexual at all.

[poetdashdaddy]

Hi Cuteandlittle,

     As others have stated, there are definitely non-sexual daddies out there, and I definitely think you can find one! Get involved in the community, and you may have a daddy quicker than you'd first think. As far as it being appropriate in terms of your current relationship, only you can answer that. Is sex the only thing that counts as cheating in a relationship? How would you feel if you found your bf with a mommy? I think it's a very personal and question which only you can answer. Just determine what you would feel okay with if it was him doing it, and then I'd say you're okay. Of course, you could always also talk to your bf about this. He might really be into it. Just as you like to feel little when you're so used to feeling big, maybe he'd like to feel bigger than he already does, or maybe he secretly wants to see more of the side you show when you're happy or pouty. You never know! Good luck and let us know how it goes. 

 

As far as friends in the DDLG community, engage in forums and the chat room and you'll have friends faster than you can imagine! Feel free to add me as well if you like, I always welcome new friends.