How to break up with daddy?

[Guest glitter-heart]

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Edited May 6, 2018 by glitter-heart

[Guest MisterE]

If he gets mad at you, he’s not acting like a Daddy. It sounds as if he calls himself Daddy in name only, but doesn’t realize or doesn’t care about the effort he has to put into it.

Does he know where you live? Things that might make it difficult and scare you afterwards if you break up with him?

[Guest glitter-heart]

If he gets mad at you, he’s not acting like a Daddy. It sounds as if he calls himself Daddy in name only, but doesn’t realize or doesn’t care about the effort he has to put into it.

Does he know where you live? Things that might make it difficult and scare you afterwards if you break up with him?

He asks me, how do I make it better? And I tell him what he can do but then he just ignores it and keeps behaving the same way he was behaving. It's so confusing. He knows where I live but we live in vastly different countries. I live in India and he lives in the US. He also knows which city in India I live in. When I said scared of his anger I meant he may say mean/hurtful things to me and I am not prepared for that cos I trusted him a lot with my pictures when I have no self esteem about how I look...

Edited April 12, 2018 by glitter-heart

[RavenclawPrincess]

Tell him the truth! It’s ok if the relationship isn’t working and you want to move on. Tell him you’re ending it and why so you both have closure.

[Guest ScorpioBeastWolf]

Well it is first and always your life and it is you, who decides to be part of it or not. Reading you, I feel he is not a real DD or maybe not a self built personality. If he is not making you feel good and you are stressed due to him, better talk to him and say him that you don't want to continue. No relationship runs with one caring and other taking use of the other. So, best I would say is talk finally and tell him either you both need to take a break or you both just let go.

[littleprincessbabz]

my ex-daddy was the same way! loving and sweet in the beginning, but then it died down into one word answers. he would constantly repeat himself as well. sadly it turned into an emotionally/mentally abusive relationship. he would manipulate his way into keeping me. it took a year and a few months for me to break up with him. 
anyway, I would tell him the truth and break up. you deserve someone better. ^^ i hope it all works out. :3 

[Guest SUeB]

Tell him its not working, give him the chance for one final message, then block him. Sorry, but thats all you can do sometimes. Doesn't sound like a relationship anyway, to be honest. Sounds like he's already moved on, but wants to be in control of how long it limps on.

[Little Illy]

Honestly, if it is to the point where you are afraid then just send an explanation and block.

 

Write up an email, letter, message, etc explaining everything you just told us - in detail and with examples. Then conclude that you two are not compatible and you need to move on. After that, send it all to him and don't even wait for a response. You are to the point of ghosting him, and not being able to morally do so (kudos to you, seriously) but that doesn't mean you have to further put yourself in an uncomfortable situation. No one should ever stay with someone out of fear, ever. 

 

By doing this, you have 1. provided an explanation and giving him the respect of not ghosting 2. you are taking control of the situation and not letting his emotions cloud your judgement and 3. you are allowing yourself to move on in a safer way. 

 

At the end of the day, if you want to break up with someone there is nothing wrong with saying "this isn't working, I need to move on." No one should ever hold you in disregaurd because you are looking after yourself.

[Guest BabyPeach]

 

 

I feel like I should break up with him cos I am sure he is not the daddy for me and I need to find someone who appreciates me. But I am scared of his anger and how he will take it. I thought of just deleting my account and letting it be so that I go away from him forever but that would be very unethical and wrong of me so I have to face him. Can anyone please help me? Thank you in advance.

 

 

I'm not sure of the details, but what I've gathered is that you two only talk online and have never met in person.  This means that you have none of his personal information (cell phone, home address, first and last name) and he doesn't have yours either.  The fact is that you KNOW he isn't right for you (you said this yourself) and you're also afraid of him. It's time to think of YOU. Put yourself first and delete your account and let it go.  You don't owe him anything and your safety is more important than he is.  He shouldn't have ever put you in a position to be afraid of him.  That's abusive.  Trust me, he'll get over it fast because this isn't a relationship to him.  He'll just find another person to toy with.  He isn't putting any effort into it because he just enjoys sexual roleplay with a little.  After he gets his fix from you he ghosts until he wants it again.  Remember, you don't owe him ANYTHING.  

[Guest glitter-heart]

I'm not sure of the details, but what I've gathered is that you two only talk online and have never met in person.  This means that you have none of his personal information (cell phone, home address, first and last name) and he doesn't have yours either.  The fact is that you KNOW he isn't right for you (you said this yourself) and you're also afraid of him. It's time to think of YOU. Put yourself first and delete your account and let it go.  You don't owe him anything and your safety is more important than he is.  He shouldn't have ever put you in a position to be afraid of him.  That's abusive.  Trust me, he'll get over it fast because this isn't a relationship to him.  He'll just find another person to toy with.  He isn't putting any effort into it because he just enjoys sexual roleplay with a little.  After he gets his fix from you he ghosts until he wants it again.  Remember, you don't owe him ANYTHING.  

Hey it's nice to see your comment because I have been reading threads and liking any comment I came across of you, you're great!

[Guest BabyPeach]

Hey it's nice to see your comment because I have been reading threads and liking any comment I came across of you, you're great!

 

Thank you so much! My knowledge comes from life experience (but of course I'm not perfect). I sincerely try to help. <3

[Guest glitter-heart]

Thank you so much! My knowledge comes from life experience (but of course I'm not perfect). I sincerely try to help. <3

Honestly I love how your comments are not misogynistic/sexist! Those kind of comments bug me! So whenever I saw your comments I was like "Slayyyy" lol