I think I was ghosted

[iJoeyMonster]

I think I got ghosted. No, I'm 99.9% positive I have been. We'd only talked for a week. I don't understand why he'd just stop talking to me? Last I talked to him he was sick but working again. I had planned in the few days to watch a movie with him though it wasn't set in stone yet since he was sick. I asked if there was anything I could do to help him feel better and he said he didn't know. I backed off. About half a week ago - give or take - I said hello to him on kik. Kik says it was delivered, but he hasn't read it. I don't know if he's just ignoring me or what. I don't know if I'm blocked either. If his phone was off or kik was logged out I think it'd give a S for sent. R for read. D for delivered. 

 

I'm going through a lot right now so it makes it worse. Depression hit just now. I'm in pain. And I feel worthless again. 

[Guest Spookycupcake]

I'm sorry if you were ghosted, people do this so often anymore. I have been in that position myself and I wish I could help in some way. I just hope you find someone amazing soon.

[Guest BabyPeach]

You only talked for a week.  Stop giving him power over you.  If he ghosted you, it's on him and it has nothing to do with you. Ghosting happens all the time when something is new.  Heck, it happens quite a bit when things aren't new.  I'm sorry this happened to you, but take your power back.  This has nothing to do with self worth or value.  You were valuable, and worthy, before he did this just the same as you are now.  The way I try to view things like that is that it just wasn't the right person for you.  The right person will stay no matter what.  The Universe just freed you up to meet that right person. 

 

Or, he's just been busy.  Either way, try not to invest emotion into someone if you've only know them for such a short time.  There's no way you actually know the real them after only a week.

[Guest vegan freebird]

You are not worthless iJoeymonster. Don't think that.

People who knowingly do this are cowards and/or lack human decency.

 

Don't waste your energy being sad over him. You deserve better.

 

Good luck in the future

 

xx

[CaresAlot]

I know that you have a lot on your plate and sometimes it seems like life is piling on.  Eventually things turn and you find your way out of the pile.  Its never going to be perfect, but it can always be better.  You have a smaller pool of Daddies that fit exactly for what you are looking for, so I can understand why after a week it hurts.  The one thing I see a lot of on here is people that went through a lot to find who they were looking for.  The one common thing they all say is it wasn't fun searching but finding the right one made up for all of it.

 

I look at all the things you do and the things you are capable there is so much there.  I'm really intelligent but art, singing and dancing are things that just elude me for being good at (I do them just not well).  Paint by number is my most artistic skill.  When you find the right Daddy looking for a LB then that Daddy is going to get a special LB.  The games you like are many ones I've played forever.  I'm not so up on the current games and gaming platform, but my Nintendo (the original one) still works but not sure if there is any TV that I can still connect it to.  There are several LBs on here and you should reach out to them.  I'd also reach out to others that are looking for friends.  There are plenty that have some of the same interest as you do.

 

One of the things us guys do is we want to fix things.  The other thing is we want to do it ourselves, guys have big egos.  Hardest thing we have to do is recognize that we can't fix everything and to ask somebody to help.  I am writing this to myself as much as it is directed at you.  Other Littles can be some of that help because I think you need somebody to just talk day to day stuff, arts and craft or games.  There are plenty of Little gamers, believe it or not.  You go into chat room and start talking games, usually will pull several people into the conversation.  Now we start talking pinball I am there.

 

Right now you are keeping two people from being happy.  You and the Daddy that is looking for somebody just like you.  This is a good site and there are lots of Daddies looking.  Your situation will probably take longer, but find those friends so you do have an outlets.  Things do get better and there's a Daddy out there looking for you.

Edited April 5, 2018 by CaresAlot