Littles that just leave

[Guest Juggalo king]

I hate little that leaves with no trace i have/had idk anymore but i message her on skype and she doesnt reply and it bothers me because i can see shes active on there any advice on what i should do like should i call her sometime or look for a new little?

[BabyChuggs]

Awwww I know how you feel, try messaging her or getting in touch with her a different way?

[CaresAlot]

Always have two or means of getting in touch with somebody, because believe it or not sometimes technology fails.  Be the adult about this and send her a final message.  Tell her how much you enjoyed being with her, that you are not sure what happened and that you hope she finds what she is looking for.  That is how real man does it with class.  You always want to take the high road because you may never know the whole story.

 

After you do that then its time to either fish or cut bait.  Don't jump out looking for another Little right away.  Take a look at yourself and the things that you did or didn't do and be critical of yourself if you truly want to be better.  Sit down and write out what you are wanting out of a relationship.  Then before you jump into another relationship, sit down with her and see where the two of you match up.  What kind of rules, limits and parameters.  Too often relationships are just winging it.  Lack of expectations and communication is the biggest relationship killer on here.

[Guest SUeB]

It's people that leave or ghost, not littles, or daddies, or any other identity. Most of us have experienced that since the whole online meeting thing started. Yes it sucks, but it's part of it, so best to try accept it. It's not you, it's the way of the internet

[Guest ScorpioBeastWolf]

As @Sueb says, it is not about littles or Daddies who leave or tend to become ghost like features, it is the person who leaves. To be known not all will last with us for longer, some come into our life to teach us a lesson and make us stronger in life to learn importantance of self. So, never think much about who goes away but trust in the amazing life which is ready to bring the best on the path. Take time for self, reflect back on the memories and be grateful for those even little moments. And then become stronger to grow and move on, opening the heart ♥ for the one who will care and like your presence.

[Guest QueenPrincess]

Hey. I've been ghosted before, I get the feels.

But there's literally no question here BECAUSE even if she suddenly starts answering you know who she is.

Seriously.

Unless someone is dead or she got stabbed, then it's not gonna work anyway.

Presumably you could message her on skype or on here. If neither of those is sufficient then she just doesn't want to talk to you.

 

Stop sending her messages. No, you don't need to send a final message.

[neworder]

I was relieved the one time I was ghosted for a week that she finally answered that she was OK. A few months before that, she had lost her keys & ID and I had to take her to her car and call a locksmith to cut her a new key and an extra with a hide a key box she should hide on her car without even my knowing where she put it.

 

College spring break just started, and my first thought was she lost her phone while going to FL, so I txted to her phone “if lost call me @ 1231231212”

Still nothing... then every evening I was looking at news sites from Atlanta to Florida looking for reports of serious car accidents.

She did respond when I said I was worried and was thinking of calling her sis to see if she’s heard from her (without revealing who I am) and she called me , her big self furious at me for thinking of calling her fam.

 

After months of being together, one does not simply vanish... she said she needed time to think about things.

 

She was angry that I was worried so much - but that’s what daddies should do.

 

She could have just said.. I need time away or “I’m done” and I would have stopped then and there as I was no longer responsible for her.

 

Another thing a daddy should do is when your little says she is done... acknowledge and stop all contact. Don’t try to convince her to stay... I didn’t ... I only wanted her to see from my perspective then let her know that yes we are done.

[Guest BabyPeach]

Another thing a daddy should do is when your little says she is done... acknowledge and stop all contact. Don’t try to convince her to stay... I didn’t ... I only wanted her to see from my perspective then let her know that yes we are done.

 

This! Don't harass, don't stalk, don't obsess......let her/him go.