Im having some issues when in little space... help!

[TeaPartyBaby]

Hi guys! I have found recently i have trouble staying in little space.. mainly its my own anxiety, but ill be doing what i like, babbling to myself cuddling a stuffie, kicking my legs on the floor with spongebob on the tv...

And then this little voice in the back of my head starts trying to pull me out of it. "This is weird... youre weird doing this... you should feel awkward about this... its embarassing. If you ever get a boyfriend or girlfriend theyll be embarassed by you."

 

I hate it cos it drags me straight out of little space and leaves me really nervous and depressed any tips?

Edited April 3, 2018 by CandiStuffies

[LittleKitten13]

I sometimes get anxious about my littleness as well.  It doesn't often drag me out of little space, just leaves me scared and sad in little space because I feel like I'm a disaster waiting to happen.  Just take deep breaths, if you journal, maybe journal a little bit about how you feel.  One time Papa and I had a fight and I got really upset, but I'd said not nice things to Papa and felt like I didn't deserve to be comforted by him, so I wrote how I felt on a blog I have set up just for Papa and me.

[TimidLittlePupen]

I have trouble going into little space and staying there a lot for the same reasons...but what my Tissy makes me do (especially when she's not around) is say the opposite of what the little voice is saying...kinda like when your a kid and some buddy says your hair looks stupid, and as a kid your natural thing is nuh uh your just being a doodie head. same concept.  just treat the voice kinda like a bully and sass it, if it says your weird, say nuh uh your weird.  just try to counter it with the opposite of what ever it says.  And there will be times the voice might try to be louder than what you're saying/thinking, so i'll put in my head phones and blare my little music (essentially drowning out the voice with little stuffs)  Another thing you can try, if you have a favorite stuffie, Is to dub them your night and make them fight off the voice.  Those things help me most of the time, oh and ice cream or warm cookies and milk ((or any food that puts you at ease)  Hope this helps.   If you ever need some one to talk to your welcome to add me

[Guest Little Otter]

Aw thats not good to think that way!

 

I have similar issues. Being a boy, Im not actually very cute or little. So sometimes I become self-aware, or send Mommy a pic, or see myself in a mirror and Im pulled out of little space and get a big sads.

 

For me, little space is almost meditative. My mind is clear, Im just in the moment, etc. It can be difficult to maintain with adulterated intrusive thoughts sometimes, but when it happens I just take a deep breath, and try to focus on whats making me feel little at the time.

 

And dont ever be embarassed! Little space is so wholesome and pure, at least for me, Im sure youre totally adorable and you deserve a good MD/DD that'll see that! <3

[Guest infinitecases]

Aw thats not good to think that way!

 

I have similar issues. Being a boy, Im not actually very cute or little. So sometimes I become self-aware, or send Mommy a pic, or see myself in a mirror and Im pulled out of little space and get a big sads.

 

For me, little space is almost meditative. My mind is clear, Im just in the moment, etc. It can be difficult to maintain with adulterated intrusive thoughts sometimes, but when it happens I just take a deep breath, and try to focus on whats making me feel little at the time.

 

And dont ever be embarassed! Little space is so wholesome and pure, at least for me, Im sure youre totally adorable and you deserve a good MD/DD that'll see that! <3

 

I agree here with little space being almost meditative! If it's not completely taken over my thoughts, I find that it's not truly little space for me.. I have to be coaxed and persuaded and completely at ease before that happens and I think at that point, I just forget everything and don't even notice that I'm not thinking anything worrying or bad etc. 

 

When you get those thoughts, perhaps you're envisioning specific people thinking you're weird? And if so, think about how little space makes you happy and how being happy yourself is more important than what those people think!! When I'm little around Daddy, I sometimes get thoughts about how if someone I knew saw me like that they'd be repulsed by how I'm acting and thinking I'm acting all 'cute' to be attention seeking etc... but my Daddy loves me.. and I can mostly shoo those thoughts away by seeing how grateful I am for having found this dynamic.

[cutelittlevixey]

i am sorry that happens for you.

i have issues occasionally about my littlespace. i get anxious that maybe i am annoying Daddy, or that maybe He would prefer i not be little, and it is like a flash of anxiety that can ruin the moment.

 

The only thing that has helped me, and i suspect it would help you, too, is learning to love and accept yourself for who you are. It is okay to be little if that is part of YOU! Be kind to yourself and do not inflict guilt or shame on yourself for knowing what you like and wanting to enjoy it. ❤

It is a process, day by day, but i promise it gets easier.

[Guest Little Otter]

i am sorry that happens for you.

i have issues occasionally about my littlespace. i get anxious that maybe i am annoying Daddy, or that maybe He would prefer i not be little, and it is like a flash of anxiety that can ruin the moment.

 

The only thing that has helped me, and i suspect it would help you, too, is learning to love and accept yourself for who you are. It is okay to be little if that is part of YOU! Be kind to yourself and do not inflict guilt or shame on yourself for knowing what you like and wanting to enjoy it. ❤

It is a process, day by day, but i promise it gets easier.

 

 

THIS 100x over!!!!!!! <3

[Princesspoopybutt]

I get the same thing for me the only thing that helps is daddy treating me like a little it just makes me realise he doesn't completely hate me for it. And then when I get depressed and that brings me out of it when I just start playing a little game or talking to stuffies it helps. Idk if that's just me tho.

[BabyFennecFox22]

I'm sorry that is happening to you

 

I have the same problem, only its because I have so many adult things to think about that I keep slipping in and out of little space. I don't know about anyone else, but focusing on just being cute an little and realizing that problems won't go away by worrying about them helps me.