[CloudyPancakes]

[Daddy4Princess]

I feel like there may be some missing context here.  Was it perhaps a punishment for an earlier incident?  How far does your power exchange go?  If he is your daddy dom doesn't he have the final say?  Maybe he prefers the other place?

 

You say you don't feel like he ever considers what you want.  How often does this happen, and do you have other examples?  The way you describe it it certainly sounds like maybe hes not considering you.  Sounds like you may need to have a sit down with him and talk through it.  I hope things get resolved for you! 

[Guest Arc]

No offence but you're just sounding like a brat trying to make a problem where there is none. Is this really just because you didn't get what you want? Because, seriously... You're an adult and things don't always go your way. Relationships aren't all about you. The world does not revolve around you. If this is literally just about bubble tea then you are seriously over reacting. 

 

Maybe next time ask if you can get yours from where you want and he can get his where he wants, or since you went to his place this time you can go to where you wanted next. You seem to be making a bigger deal of this than is needed when there are such simple solutions. 

 

No, he is not a fake Daddy. He is a person who wants certain things, and has every right to them because he is an adult and he is allowed to prefer one bubble tea place over another. 

[Little Illy]

Arc said it beautifully, but I wanted to add:

 

Maybe you need to consider how true you are to the identity of "little." Do you want someone to just give you everything you want 100% of the time, or do you want a real relationship? If you want a real relationship... then I wish you luck because this is a bad attitude to have (WITH only having the limited information in this post). Real relationships means discussing things with your partner AS AN ADULT. And I fear... with your title "ANOTHER fake Daddy"... how many Daddies have you gone through? This is not a fake Daddy, this is a Daddy who can't read your mind. If you are not willing to communicate as an adult (saying you haven't done so already) then you wont be able to have a successful relationship. Not just you - ANYONE who isn't willing to communicate as an adult should steer clear. 

 

I am sorry if this sounds harsh - but too many accusations of "Fake Daddy" are being thrown around this community and this thread was like an alarm bell. I suggest you take a read of this thread: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/23301-fake-it-needs-to-stop/ (SFW). It can help you and your Daddy get on the same page. Best of luck.

Edited April 3, 2018 by Little Illy

[Guest Prat]

Are you serious? ...

[Petitchat]

Sorry to be blunt but, if you're not a troll (which I seriously doubt), you are aware that you are not actually a child, right? You are a functioning adult. If you don't want to go somewhere, you can either compromise with your partner (which is a healthy base for a relationship btw), or you can decide you really can't bear to go once at a place you didn't want and pay for your own bubble tea elsewhere... I'm probably harsher than I needed to but I find this post incredibly disrespectful of your partner. You're throwing a tantrum because you didn't get what you wanted, and insulting him (fake daddy etc.) to strangers's faces, probably without his knowledge, for something so trivial? Not cool my dude.

If this post was genuine, you really need to take the time to think about what you're looking for in a relationship and if you're ready for one. Good luck for the future.

Edited April 3, 2018 by Petitchat

[neko]

I really hope this is a troll post lmao

[MadelynVictoria]

Sorry, but just because you didn't get your tea from the place you wanted doesn't make him a fake daddy, and you're overreacting a tad lol. You need to communicate with him more, and learn to accept that you don't always get what you want. It's a sucky part of life, but one we have to deal with.

[meows kohai]

Is this real?

[Guest SUeB]

So he's fake cos you don't always get your way? Lol, ok. Is he the submissive in this "relationship"?

[littleorchid]

This is a bizarre post...

[Guest Urthurs]

Yes he is made of plastic.

[LittleKitten13]

From just this, it sounds more like you're just really upset....  I can understand being upset if that's something you really wanted, but you need to be able to accept that sometimes things don't happen how you want.  I've been really disappointed before myself (I thought we were gonna get to go to the zoo, then plans had to change and I almost started crying because I was so sad about it), but that's something that I've had to work through.

If you feel like he NEVER listens to you about what you want, you need to talk to him as a grown up, not just a little.  Don't come complain to us.

Also, him wanting to do his own things doesn't make him a fake daddy...it just makes him someone who wants to get bubble tea from somewhere else.