Guest AllDayInPink Posted April 21, 2018 Report Posted April 21, 2018 I haven't told friends or family because I'm not interested in telling lol I was in a DDlg relationship for like 4 years so I didn't have the need to tell anyone and after that relationship ended I haven't yet met someone who attracts me enough to consider talking about it.
sippycup Posted April 22, 2018 Report Posted April 22, 2018 I've told my friends that I am a Little and had a Daddy and at first they didn't really understand it and were freaked out but after a while of me telling them it's not incest or anything they began to accept who I am and they now are always there by my side when I need it. I told my mom two years ago and she was mostly confused of it but rather doesn't bring it up or anything. So I guess it went okay.
Littlekoala Posted April 23, 2018 Report Posted April 23, 2018 Only a couple of my friends, and at first they didn’t knew about ddlg relationship and I’m explained to them and they are accepting me. One of my friends said if she met my type of Daddy she will let me know:)
Guest CaptainAmerica97 Posted April 23, 2018 Report Posted April 23, 2018 Yes, and he has helped me through several panic attacks and has helped me with my depression also. I am so happy that we are friends.
Guest littlegirl707 Posted April 23, 2018 Report Posted April 23, 2018 I told my best friend since 3rd grade. Well She wasw very judgmental its sad to say were not friends at all anymore. My sister I want to tell but no way. I think its better not to tell cause theres so much judgement around it and shaming. On tv its laughed at so hard. Its sad and a hard lifestyle. I dont think littles will ever be free in america to many bullies.
Guest KhaleesiKettle Posted April 23, 2018 Report Posted April 23, 2018 You might be surprised to find that those you hold close to you are just like you! Me and my best friends were really close before we found out that we shared interests in the DDlg community and it brought us even closer. When I got to college I met some of my best friends by opening up about this stuff. Some people might take a little longer to understand, but in the end, if they love you they will remain loving you regardless!
curcy299 Posted August 30, 2018 Report Posted August 30, 2018 I have actually told my best friend who, i have dated before and it didn't work out. But we became closer friends afterwards. The reason i told him was because he was asking about whether i had any sexual drive or not. He actually had to tell me to use my words i got so flustered and reluctant to talk about it. He kinda acknowledged what i was saying and hasn't brought it up again and he didn't really want to talk about it anymore. I have trust issues so that was one of the reasons i never told him when we were dating because i didn't trust him to do what i needed. I think he understands but i don't think he'll ever ask me that kind of question again.
Guest BabyGlitterMilk Posted August 31, 2018 Report Posted August 31, 2018 I’ve one friend who’s known about this since my first expression of interest in the lifestyle. She’s super supportive of it and has taken it in stride! But she’s the only one who knows. I’ve recently moved into an apartment with two friends and my room is super cute and little-esque. I’m convinced one of them has worked it out but we haven’t spoken about the subject and frankly I’d die of embarrassment if she ever brought it up. I don’t know at all how she feels about the subject but I don’t think she views it positively. One of my friends ( whom I dated for a short while ) is very vocal about her disgust for the lifestyle so I’ll never let that one know. But it’s funny in a life-ending sort of way, she calls me little sometimes to pick on me. :’) what an unusual world. Overall I don’t need my entire social network to know about it, but I would very much like to have at least one little friend that I can hang out with in my area.. someday maybe..
prince eefy Posted September 2, 2018 Report Posted September 2, 2018 i am very open about it on my personal facebook and if anyone doesnt like it then thats their problem (im mostly open about the little space part, not the sexual part bc opening up about that would make me uncomfy). my best friend of 7 years knows and is even a Little herself but doesnt have a daddy :/ my daddy knows of course. my sister knows bc shes nosy and saw my messages one time (and doesnt really understand it but is quiet about it for the most part). my real mom knows of it and doesnt really understand at all so im very lowkey about it at home since i live with her. only time i really go into littlespace is when no one is around or home.
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