Have you ever told anyone?

[lilangelbby]

Only person who knows im a little is daddy and i hope no one else im close to finds out

He found out im a little bc i have a nsfw/little twitter thats private n he found it bc he went on my phone one day but he didnt wanna tell me he found it but he accidentally liked something i retweeted then we talked about it more n he was rlly cool abt me bein a little n now i have the best daddy evrr

[Nook]

I'm too scared to tell anyone, honestly  

[LilPetPet]

Only one friend of ours actually knows about ddlg. He is fine with it. Or as he put it, he "has had time to work through it" lol. He is older than us so he thinks we're weird kids.

My friends and family know my personality, which is little. They see how I dress. Theybknow I still like all the stuff I did when I was a kid. But they don't know what ddlg is (at least they haven't told me if they do). But they love me. One of my friends is a lot like me and even calls her hubby Daddy.

But we worry about tellign my mom becasue she was sexually abused by her father. So she might not get it and it would be a trigger.

So we just let everyone see me as I am but without a label, basically.

[MilkySarah]

I would really like to come out as a little but I'm not really confident with daddy's friends... like I always act like a 8/9 yo girl but I never said that I'm a little (and I'm 100% sure that they don't even know what ddlg is tbh)

[xpaciprincesss]

All my friends and family know I have a childish personality. Even long before knowing I was a little or got into a DDlg dynamic, I never hid that side of me. For my 18th birthday a friend got me a bottle because he said I was like a baby girl. I remember filling it up with liquor at parties as a "joke" between friends (legal drinking age here is 18), but even at home, I sometimes drank juice or chocolate milk out of it, had it on a shelf on my room for all my family to see and no one ever said a thing, except maybe laugh a bit about my childish ways.

 

It was earlier last year when I hinted to my best friend that I was a little, he laughed and said it was no surprise. Last month we talked about it again and he said I was definitely a babygirl and I've even gone into littlespace with him around and he's been super understanding and supportive. Lately I've opened up to a couple friends more about it, I was expecting a worse reaction, but none of them freaked out. One of them used to say he was disgusted by the whole DDlg aesthetic and kink, but has changed his mind since I talked to him about it.

 

I don't think I'll ever open up completely about it to my family, but I've given my mother some hints and she seems to be ok with that as well. She's even gifted me clothes or decor off from different stores children sections and she's been helping me look out for a stuffie I told her I wanted.

 

So... I was wondering if any of you have told friends/family about you being little.

Who did you tell? How did they react?

[Guest CaptainAmerica97]

I'm glad that you have a understanding family and friends. I still have friends that i am trying to come out to but i have come out to two friends so far. And they have just told me to be careful but be happy. Now my family is another matter all together, only my sister knows i am bisexual and i have hented about being interested in the BDSM world. But even she told me to be careful no matter what and she is there for me.

[Guest TotalitarianPrincess]

[[DISCOURSE, YOU CAN SKIP IF YOU'D LIKE]]

 

Hey, not to be that person, but aren't you appropriating the phrase "coming out of the closet?" just a little bit?

In quite a few communities that I'm involved in, I notice that some people appropriate the term. For example, some witches say they come out of the "broom closet". My witchcraft community has outright banned the phrase to avoid appropriation, as has the term "smudging" (It's a native american practice and a closed religion/culture) among others.

"coming out" is a self-disclosure about someone's sexual orientation or gender identity. Therefore, I don't think it right for us to use it. As a queer and lgbt person, I don't think it appropriate to use the phrase here.

 

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to answer your question, I've told several friends and they thought it befitting. I'm a childish, bubbly person and it really doesn't surprise people to know that I age regress. I don't think it super appropriate to tell my family, though, because it's kind of a private thing.

[MadelynVictoria]

I've never told anyone, and I most likely will never tell anyone besides my partner, and that's if I'm certain they're into ddlg. My family and friends just would not get it, and they wouldn't care to try understanding it. I'd rather skip the judgement altogether

[star-strucky]

I haven't told anyone in my family but they see me all the time wearing pigtails and bows in my hair, and my mom knows I use a paci and I wear diapers from time to time so I feel like she knows even if she doesn't know the terminology for it haha

[XmochiX]

One of my friends found out cause they were spying on my Reddit activity, and I recently told another one of my friends who is also a little. Other than that, no one knows.

 

I'm not trying to hide it, exactly. Everyone knows that I color, love cartoons, and never act my age. But I haven't started using my paci in public, either.

[Angel24]

I decided a couple months ago that since this is my lifestyle I don't want to hide it anymore. Most of my friends know and all of my immediate family knows. The one thing I won't do is shove it in anyone's face, I know not everyone will be comfortable with something like this and I want to respect that. All that said, it feels so freeing to know there so many people that it's okay for me to be myself around

[Hopeisreal]

I’ve told four of my friends and they are accepting of it.

[Guest DarkLIttlePrince]

I have only mentioned it to people once, people who were involved (like me) with BDSM .. and it was a disaster... so... nope, I stopped mentioning it and I guess I ll keep it a secret...

 

My current GF knows I did some ageplay with an ex and thats it... and she really (and I mean really) hates the subject...

 

And besides, professionally it would be a great risk for me. I do envy those who can talk openly about it....

[kittyboo]

Lots of friends and a couple of family members know I am into BDSM but the only person who knows about little me is the guy that I play with. I don't know if I'd tell anyone just because it's not really their business, but I guess if I had a Daddy who would obviously be a big part of my life I might tell my closest friend.

[Foreverhislittle]

I’ve told most everyone in my life to some extent. It made me feel better. Everyone I have told has been cool with it, even my vanilla friends. Both of my parents are dead so no worries there, but I haven’t told my little sister. She would NOT understand.

[LittleGypsyGirl]

My family all kinda knows. I have a two year old sister and my mom says I treat her like I’m five. My brothers both have their own Little’s.

[Yaar]

My friends know (I don't have very many but the one's I have know). No one in my family or anything knows tho

[Guest Arc]

Nearly all of my friends know. I'm into latex and sometimes I wear my dresses or leggings in public. Sometimes Daddy has me wear my steel collar out in public rather than my day collar, and that makes to very obvious. As does my keychain that says "Daddy's baby girl."

 

Plus I'm just really open in general that I'm into BDSM and other kinks. I used to be devastated when I lost friends when they found out, but I eventually learned true friends wouldnt see me as any different if they knew. True friends would know I'm still me - the person they became friends with to start with. People who ditch you because of your personal interests aren't worth the time. Plus... some people take it super well and want to know more. It's so much fun introducing a friend to stuff I'm into

[TC95]

It's come up in a couple of conversations with some friends.

 

In both cases, they've been a bit surprised but accepting of it. They had questions about some aspects of the lifestyle that I was happy to answer. DD/lg gets a bad rap most of the time so I liked having the chance to explain it.

 

Most people have a touch of kink in them I think, but they're too afraid or ashamed or whatever to pursue it. Once we had moved off the DD/lg stuff, the conversations both became more generally about different kinks we had. They were really interesting talks!

 

Before, I wouldn't have dared reveal my interest, but not anymore. I won't just tell people out of the blue but I'm happy to talk about it should it come up.

[Essential ddlg]

If It's sexual (which it is for me). I really don't see the need to tell anyone.

 

Finding a partner is hard though. Not something I'd just put on a dating site etc..

it's what has brought me here.

[Koala]

I told myself I would never-ever tell anyone when I first got into it. Now, all my close friends and a bunch of strangers on the internet know

[tinypixleM]

i told my best friend about me

and she was like " im happy that u told me its interesting u got a unique part in u im happy to know it "

[Usagi]

I’m in a club at my college, and a lot of people there are relatively into it or are accepting about it. I actually moved where I am and showed up to this club and they were already open about it, so it wasn’t like I had to hide anything.

 

Heck, one of the people I met was where a pastel blue shirt that had a boy on it with a flower crown and it said “Little Boy” on the top of the shirt (some of you little boys might know the one I’m talking about!). He even wore a collar around and refered to his partner openly as Daddy. So it was more like I just showed up and was like “Oh, I’m into this thing that you are also into.”

[poetdashdaddy]

Actually, yeah, and it was totally fine. I never hid it actually. I was a daddy dom for a year, and was very open about it. Some people definitely thought it was odd, but I never met anyone who turned against me because of it. Even my ultra-conservative family was okay with it. I can't imagine hiding it the whole time I was in that relationship in all honesty. Be yourself. Say it loud, say it proud!

[Guest Samibubbles]

Nobody knows im into this, My family just assumes thats how i am.