Have you ever told anyone?

[Guest Little Ceci]

Those that aren't kinky don't know I'm little but! I'm childish and bubbly in personality as well as look and sound youthful. I'm constantly mistaken for a high-schooler despite being 23! huffs loudly. 

Because of that, I kind of get treated as little by vanilla folks. I've had past co-workers playfully chide me for cursing or using any sort of foul language (this is away from customers, mind you!). Then there was this big ol' buff ex-marine of a manager I had that would bring gummy bears to work for me which always made me giggle. He's such a gentle giant despite those hard edges!

 

Outside of that, I'm very open about my love for anything pink and cute so it's not unnatural for people to see that I have stuffies or magical girl blankies. It makes things oodles easier! My mom, for example, is very guilty of spoiling me with Hello Kitty items and pastries.

[Lt.SassyRed]

Me and my daddy has came out to lots of people and we live in a small down, by doing so we have found other Littles and daddy's live in our small town too... so now I gets to have play dates and stuff. ... not everones understands and not everyone knows but we get to be ourselves and that's how we like it.

[devilishcupcake]

I told 3 of my closest and best friends because I trust them the most and because I felt like I was hiding a big secret from them. They didn't really understand so I had to explain what it was and ever since then they've been supportive of me. I get teased here and there about it from 1 friend but I laugh along and it's not treated as something in a mean way.

 

As for telling anyone else (such as my mom or family members), I don't ever see myself doing that. They don't even know I'm bisexual/non-binary so explaining to them that I'm a little would be a no no. Only person I would really tell is a future daddy/care giver.

[Dani fs]

[DaddysMonkey]

Hello there !

 

Off the bat , I would like to say that if you are not comfortable coming out as a little than by all means.. take your time OR just don't tell anyone ! 

 

People are always different , which is why I love this community. Even in Dd/lg people are very individual. A lot of people keep it a secret from public, and family but will choose to tell a select group of internet friends. ( Like the forum here <3 ) 

 

Personally , I don't have "family". The only person in my blood family I converse with is my grandmother. 

 

My friend group , as well as my work place all know that I am a little. Some people in the past have judged me , and said horrible things. But you move on , and learn who your true friends are. A person who truly cares for you may not agree , but is willing to tolerate. Or , like many people I know they accept it. They think it is cute , and don't give a damn about it really.   

 

I mostly got a lot of questions , (which you never HAVE to answer) but I myself am pretty open so I answer said questions. 

 

My experience for being little in public is mixed ; but mostly positive.

 

The choice is YOURS <3 

 

Hope this helps ! 

[sammyxoxo]

The only person I've ever told besides my daddy (who I already knew was a daddy), is my case manager. I would always be using my pacis, sippy cups, or coloring, or playing with my stuffies when she would be at the house so I explained it to her. She was super accepting of it. Edited December 27, 2016 by sammyxoxo

[a_cuddle_tiger]

I mostly keep my little side to myself. I had a very bad reaction when I told my ex. She pretty much started treating me like I was sub-intelligent because she associated child-like with retarded. It is not easy and if you don't need to you likely shouldn't just because you don't know what kind of blow-back you might get.

[sammysenpai]

I told my mom and dad, and they, my stepdad, and all my siblings have seen me in a diaper. My sister told me that my brother needed to be picked up from school. I wasnt wearing pants, just a tshirt and diaper. I can basically wear what i want around the house.

[LittleMommy]

I told my best friend. I knew she wouldn't care. I personally don't see a point in telling vanilla people.

[Mathilda-Chan]

I told my best friend too, she's very open minded.

I did not tell my boyfriend, but he saw my results at bdsm test, and know that I'm childish, kinky and I act like a little around him.

He doesn't mind, and he loves me. I juste think he doesn't know what dd/lg is, but our relationship is quite the same that dd/lg relationship. It just don't have that title and it's perfect

 

I don't think it is really usefull to "come out as a little", it's personal.

[Guest babydoe]

I haven't really come out to anyone as little, but I have a really good friend who I know will be understanding and accepting of it. I'm still nervous but hopefully it'll make things easier between us.

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

I have a very childish personality and do absolutely nothing to hide it. I haven't walked up to anyone and said Yes I'm a Little, but if anyone ever asked I wouldn't deny it. I am who I am, and that's just how I am. There's no real reason for me to explain what a Little is unless someone happened to ask. As a teen I had no issues with taking and using my binkie at school or even walking down the street. As an adult I have no issues with driving down the street using my binkie. Just as an example there. I've always been a very open minded person and believed people should be able to just be themselves. I guess, there's no real reason for me to "come out" as I've always just been myself.

[starbinch]

I tried at lunch today. Ended with me in tears and boyfriend ignoring me.

[❤Snow Bunny❤]

well i didn't really have to ''come out'' as a little, because of how obvious it is that i am one XD (i act really childish, dress childish, always have a plushie with me, bedroom has hello kitty and disney princess stuff everywhere, etc.) my friend from school had already assumed i was a little shortly after we first met XD and 2 girls from my school asked if i was a little...my boyfriend asked me what a little was (i never brought it up but some people at our school asked him if i was a little so he wanted to know what it was) and the 2 girls explained it to him for me so he was like ''so it's basically someone's who's a child at heart. well, i already knew that about you!'' so yeah it was pretty easy for me xP my boyfriend already knew i was a childish person when we first met and that's one of the things he loves about me, so he wasn't weirded out at all :3

[❤Snow Bunny❤]

I tried at lunch today. Ended with me in tears and boyfriend ignoring me.

i'm so sorry i'm here if u need a friend to talk to

[❤Snow Bunny❤]

I have a very childish personality and do absolutely nothing to hide it. I haven't walked up to anyone and said Yes I'm a Little, but if anyone ever asked I wouldn't deny it. I am who I am, and that's just how I am. There's no real reason for me to explain what a Little is unless someone happened to ask. As a teen I had no issues with taking and using my binkie at school or even walking down the street. As an adult I have no issues with driving down the street using my binkie. Just as an example there. I've always been a very open minded person and believed people should be able to just be themselves. I guess, there's no real reason for me to "come out" as I've always just been myself.

omg same for me! ^u^ i agree with you, i wish more people were more open and not afraid of being themselves.

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

It's not necessary to "come out" as a little.

[BruceDaLittle]

I have only told my brother he gets most of it accept the whole little space part but other than people in the community, no one knows Its none of their business besides I have so many judgemental people in my family it's not worth it. I keep my circle of friends small. I started wearing diapers I like them they are comfy. I was having bladder issues a family member I live with told me without even asking why I was wearing them to quit being lazy cuz I was depressed. Coming out of the toy box is a choice and if you're comfy with it that's up to you best of luck

Edited January 22, 2017 by BruceDaLittle

[Bubblykitten]

I haven't told anyone one either except my boyfriend (daddy) it's hard.

[BigCityLittleGirl]

Personally I don't see a reason to "come out" like they'd probably just take it as me feeling childish or immature which isn't really a grand thing to announce XD

I havent told my girl friends however they do know i love dressing in kids clothes from time to time.

I wouldn't tell my family about any of my other kinks so I definitely wouldn't tell them my childish side extends into my sexual side. I don't think it's appropriate to tell besides your significant other. I mean I wouldn't want to know what my uncle is secretly into so why should he know what I like lol

Edited March 3, 2017 by BigCityLittleGirl

[TheRatQueen]

Many of our friends know we're involved in BDSM, but only one of them knows about our specific dynamic. He's in a CGl relationship himself and recognized my behavior right off the bat. I came to him for advice when I was too scared to tell my partner that I was a little. It's easier to be myself around our friend now, but I don't want anyone outside of the BDSM world to know.

[Little-Sammarie]

The only people that really know about me being little is my Daddy and his sister, because she's a little too. I have a very conservative family and they honestly wouldn't understand my DD/lg relationship.

[EllaDawn]

Being a middle is simply part of my personality and identity. My friends know, if I really count them as friends. My family knows - my mom even buys me coloring books, haha. Daddy's family (my inlaws) doesn't know. His work doesn't know. Basically, the people who matter to me are told who I am, because I don't want to have to hide part of who I am, and it should honestly be fairly obvious to most.

[HisuianLilligant]

When I found the community, I told my family all about it- I have nothing to be ashamed of

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

Only a friend knows, and it's because thanks to her I discovered that I was a little, so she's the only one who knows what really means. I also do not hide my middle space, I have always been this way, so my friends and my family are accustomed, even though they do not know what it means to have a caregiver and stuff. I am happy to accept my childish side.