Have you ever told anyone?

[Antoinette]

To me it's not something my parents would need to know, I think it'd be odd to share details so intimate with them.

[littlelili]

That's not something I'd like them to know. My family is really judgemental. The culture in my country is really conservative so I don't want them to look at me in a weird way. ^^

[annemarie]

my family has no idea because we don't get along lol i see them as little as possible

[Guest pumpkinpatchPrincess]

See, for me, my mother found out about my little side and interest in DDLG when she was trying to be nice when I was 17 and was cleaning my room. She stumbled upon diapers and since, has been respectful. She knows about y BDSM lifestyle too, probably from the same way. She uses the internet to educate herself and has always been rather supportive of my sexual life.

 

She had bought diapers for me in the past and i occasionally ask questions about baby things, which she is open about.

 

I am still very closed off and nowhere near fully comfortable with her, but it's good being able to wash my sippie cup and not have to hide my diapers from her. I can just wash it and leave, or use them and throw them out, without feeling she will be angry.

[kissingkitten]

Nope. Biological family doesnt know. Vanilla friends dont know and there are a few that would freak out but there are others from work that lead alternative lifestyles that may be fine with it. The thing is i live on an island and word spreads through the coconut wireless like wildfire! Daddy knows and my shrink may have an idea about it but i doubt i will ever be out in the open about it unless visiting somewhere else with daddy and we are safe.

[Guest cottoncandyheart]

Nope and I intend to keep it that way! I feel like my sex life and what I'm into is something I'd only discuss with my boyfriend (of course) and very very close friends if the topic of sex came up. Even though I'm very close with my mum I'd find it awkward talking to her about it and even more so if she was to find out about my interest in BDSM/ageplay x one time I thought I'd been caught out when I lost my dummy and my mum offered to make my bed and it was on the floor behind the bed.. hopefully she didn't see!!

Edited August 30, 2016 by cottoncandyheart

[PrincessSacrifice]

They don't know and I wouldn't ever tell them. Although they do embrace my little side (I've always been quite childish when I want to be anyway) because they think that's normal behaviour for me (well it typically is but you know...

[princesschibi]

They don't know the exact details but they know I like little things. Like footie pjs, cartoons and my paci. My sister knows about my more vanilla kinks like hand cuffs. I wouldn't tell them much more. I don't feel they need to know. As for their opinions they tease me sometimes for the paci but not in a mean way. Its not really a big deal since my sister still sucks her thumb and I explained its the same kind of comfort item. They found out because for small things I'm open about them. Like I asked for zebra footie pjs/cartoon figures and toys for Christmas. And I use my paci almost everyday.

[Princess-P]

I don't feel the need to tell any one at all. My mom probably has an idea but we don't discuss it. This is also the same woman who worked at sex shops, goes to gay pride with me, fights for trans rights, and has held workshops at the local "club" to educate local kinksters lol. I'm sure she sees aspects of my lifestyle when she sees my Daddy and I together but it honestly probably doesn't faze her at all.

 

My best friend sees quite a bit as well in terms of knowing I have a stuffie I sleep with and that I covet my Lisa frank coloring books. She knows I'm a sucker for cute and fluffy and giraffes make me cry because I love them soooo much.

 

But really nothing between my Daddy and I is the business of anyone else. I keep myself in check in public, I act with respect towards those around me, and don't flaunt anything that may make others uncomfortable. What's the need for that?

[Guest Don Pablo]

my mother knows that I'm involved with bdsm. she respects it and didn't ask questions after I told her.

[cuppycakes]

I came out to my daddy, but I haven't told anyone else. I don't know if I ever can, but I was looking at other littles online and it surprised me how many of them came out to their family and friends as littles! I'm in a real small town, so I don't think I could for that reason, too, but I was wondering...

How many of you have told people other than your daddy that you're a little? Have you not told anyone? If you have told people, how did they take it?

 

Thank you :3

[shylittlekitten]

I haven't told anyone honestly. I'm from a small town too so I understand the struggle!

[Guest]

My friends from college all know and most are cool with it. (A few dislike it but ffff them ) every now and again I'll get a little cheeky joke about it but over all I get support from them. They will buy me happy meals and give me little gifts a lot and some will color with me ^^

[IchigoHime]

I only have two friends in real life that know I am a little. I'm too scared to tell anyone else. My mother and sister know about my involvement in BDSM, but not my little side. I can almost guarantee they would be totally cool with it, and would probably be like "well that explains a lot" lol but I just haven't been able to do it. I have a few online friends I have come out to, and of course Daddy knows. But I tend to keep it to myself mostly.

[Daisies&Donuts]

I do not "come out" about any of my kinks with anyone whom I am not in a romantic and/or sexual relationship with. There simply is no reason for me to. If there is a reason for you to consider it, consider both the positive and negative. Consider worst case scenario, then make it a little worse. If you can handle *that* then you can "come out" and hopefully it will be worth it in the end.

 

That being said, I have at least one kinky friend who is just a friend who probably knows a great deal more about my kinks than he'll let on simply because he is familiar with it and can guess. He does, however, have the respect to keep it to himself, as I do for him. Friends don't "out" friends. 

[MusicChicaMia]

I've told my group of online friends and then a few of my friends at work but that's pretty much it. Like my family, I can't even tell them that I'm Bisexual, the only people in my family that know are my parents and then I think my cousin who's like a little sister to me. 

I know that if I told my family or even any of my close friends who are super religious that I'm a little I know that if I told them they'd disown me (well most of them). 

[Guest SoloFairy]

For me I don't look at little as being a kink...I think it's a label/explanation for my personality. Being spanked, choked, tied up, degraded, peed on....those are kinks in my book. 

 

Anyway I didn't come out to Daddy...Daddy knew about my littleness well before I did and it took me even longer to admit it lol 

 

I have friends who know what kind of relationship Daddy and I have. It was kind of necessary because explaining why I couldn't do XYZ was starting to get complicated...especially when I would be excited about it, ask permission, be told no, then tell the I wasn't going to do it afterall lol

 

Everyone (including family) knows I call him Daddy and that he calls me babygirl.  But only a small handful of friends know why.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Daddy and I are out to absolutely no one, and I don't know that that will ever change. Sure, at times I would love to be open and honest about it with everyone close to us (which is... his mom, my mom, and my best friend), but at the same time, it's very private and personal between the two of us, and so far no reason has arose that made it where anyone else needed to know. My best friend knows we like kinky stuff, nothing more.

[cuppycakes]

Thank you everybody for responding! I wish I could tell people just so I could be myself around them. I'd LOVE it if my friends would

buy me happy meals and give me little gifts a lot and some will color with me ^^

you're super lucky!!

 

I wish I had enough courage to tell people and not care what they think. As for now I think the best course of action is just to tell people I'm childlike.

 

My daddy and I don't have very strict rules or anything, so I don't have to worry about my friends finding out that way, either.

 

I just want to tell someone so badly! I want to show people that it's not just a kink, that it's who I am and I knew that WAY before I'd even heard of littlespace. It's nice to hear that there are so many accepting people out there, too♡

[Little_Rose_]

I was afraid to tell my boyfriend I was a little. He told be about his Daddy side first and I was so relieved. My now Daddy is the only one who knows I'm a little. I know my family would not approve. Most of my friends know me as childish and odd so I don't have to repress my little space like i do around my family. 
To all the people in this thread that are open to their friends i hope to be as brave as you one day.

Edited December 20, 2016 by Little_Rose_

[Guest littlevulcangirl]

No one knows I'm little. I don't intend to come out, I've come out already so many times it gets really old. On the other hand I don't want to hide it, if a friend were to see this site, or see an item in my flat I would be fine with that, just don't feel the need to discuss it with them, and I can't face the inevitable judgement.

[Guest LittleLexiKitty]

I havent come out yet, except to my best friend. Im fine others knowing tho and they can even ply wif me as long as theyre not meanies. One day everyone will know but until then im content ^.^

[Spoiledprincess13]

No. It's never crossed my mind either. I always liked stuffed animals and "childish" things so no one questiones it.

[Spoiledprincess13]

My friends from college all know and most are cool with it. (A few dislike it but ffff them ) every now and again I'll get a little cheeky joke about it but over all I get support from them. They will buy me happy meals and give me little gifts a lot and some will color with me ^^

that's how my friends are they don't know I'm a little but when they see anything hello kitty or Disney princess they get it for me lol they think it's cute.

[cuppycakes]

I always liked stuffed animals and "childish" things so no one questiones it.

I'm the exact same! My mom got me a Disney Princess watch for Christmas, and she has no idea. She just knows I like kid stuff.