Have you ever told anyone?

[RPcat18]

Was curious as to weather anyone has told people they know in real life they are into this? If so how did it go? Personally I haven't but kinda want to just to get it off my chest I hate having secrets. I want to tell my best firmed so bad. 

[Robbin]

I told a barista at a coffee shop i was a regular at. She was fairly open with what she was into and i told her. We became friends and it was a pretty sweet feeling to have someone know, and be into the same thing pretty much.

[Guest Sae]

I've told one of my friends. Shes kinky and she had no issues with it. but I haven't really told anyone else.

[RPcat18]

I JUST TOLD MY BEST FRIEND!!!!!! She reacted great

[Ms.Prettykitty]

I told a lot of people, I'm quiet open to my preferences and weather or not they like it is they problemoo.

I have told many people except my parents but I have told my older sister.

I think my mom knows after all the kiddie stuff, hellokitty merch, pacifiers, kiddy clothing, baby talk and daddy being stern sometimes in front of her :0

[ashwee]

I can totally understand where you're coming from with not wanting to keep secrets, and wanting to tell people. But I guess for me personally, I mostly avoid telling friends unless it comes up for some reason or I can't avoid it.

 

Having said that, none of my friends know anything about the fact that I'm a little. The exception is my bf/daddy (obviously). However, as far as general BDSM type stuff? I've actually told lots of friends about that… but a big part of it is the fact that it just happens that a lot of my friends are already into BDSM related stuff.

 

And also, I figured I'd mention about me being incontinent. I don't ever tell friends unless I absolutely cannot avoid it. My bf/daddy knows obviously. My parents know. I have 3-4 friends who also know, but that's it really.

 

[MrBonesWildRide]

Obviously I've told all of my kinky friends about it. I've begun telling one of my coworkers too mostly because he was telling me about some kinky shit (he is pretty much 99% vanilla I think) and I laughed and dropped that on him deadpan.

 

My family though, I haven't told anyone. The only person I would potentially out myself to is to the older of my 2 sisters who has been much more supportive of my life choices.

[Xia]

I couldn't imagine telling anyone, but I keep to myself a lot, especially irl. I mean maybe... probably not.

[MountainFlower]

My best friend knows, because she was trying it out for the first time when I was. She enjoyed it but thought it wasn't actually for her, but now she's a little again so it's all good! (She has a Daddy too, they're both new to it all)

My Mum found out by reading a poem Daddy wrote me, but she's not shown any concern towards it. Plus, she's heard me when I've said it in a different room and she's walked past the door etc.. But she hasn't bothered to speak about it, so I'm not worried

Everyone else doesn't know, they just think it's how we are. But they don't know I call him Daddy, but they know he calls me Princess.
I'm glad it went well for you!

[princess gremlin]

Two of my best friends know because one of them is into it too and we discovered it around the same time, the other friend knows because we're all really open about kinky stuff and we're all kinky in different ways so it's really just stuff we normally talk about! The thing is that when I talk to them about it, it's more about the fun kinky daddy stuff that people are into, and less the actual little interests and age regression stuff. I feel somewhere uncomfortable coming out and saying that I'm a 'little' to them, because that's more about me and who I am and less about the cool sexy stuff I'm into. However, I think that my friend who is into it really is a little as well, based on our shared interests of sippy cups, pacifiers, Hello Kitty, Frozen, baby products, etc (we even have matching Disney princess sippy cups). Something about putting the label and definition of 'little' on it when we talk about it feels weird, I guess, though I'm sure it'll come up at some point. For now, what we call it (and how we disguise it when we talk about it in front of others) is 'babygirl' or 'babygirl af' or 'daddy af' and we tell people it's an aesthetic when they ask. Like, if we're out together and we see, for example, Hello Kitty temporary tattoos, I'll squeal and point it out to her and go, "omg it's so babygirl' or something to that effect. We even call our group of friends 'babygirl squad' sometimes when people ask, or 'baby lotion squad' just because x)

 

Another one of my friends who knows is my guy friend who is into other aspects of BDSM and not necessarily ddlg, but it felt nice telling him because I knew that 1. he already knew what ddlg was all about and what littles and daddies are and 2. I knew that he wouldn't judge me.

 

I am somewhat afraid of my mom finding out, although I'm super open with her so she knows I have sippy cups and she knows I like Disney and looking at baby stuff. I think that if she knew what ddlg was, she would put it together and figure out that that's what I'm into, so I hope she doesn't know what it is. I feel like she might have a sneaking suspicion, since I had to explain to her at one point why some girls like calling guys daddy, and I think she's caught me looking at stuff online pertaining to that, and it's getting harder to explain away. I'm sure she won't judge me if she finds out but she might be a little bit freaked out because of the weird implications of calling a guy daddy. Oh well.

[tiemeupwithyourlove]

I'm not sure why I'd ever want to tell someone willingly, but I can see the temptation if you mind secrets. I've told my best friends about it when we were drunk and having a "moment"  but that's it. But then again, I have friends into DD/LG that I can openly talk to, so I maybe I don't get it. 

[Baby_Bows_]

I want to tell someone so we could play together haha. It would be fun to show my new cups or passys to people. I'm prayifn for a good little friend, but until then it'll be a secret.

[manicpixidream]

Two of my best friends know I'm little, normally I just tell people I'm submissive if it comes up because I know some people wouldn't understand the DDlg dynamic.

Told my psych professor the other week. That was terrifying. I didn't like, just, go up to him and blurt it out. It was part of a paper I wrote for the class and I needed his input on something. He was really cool about it, didn't even really "respond" to my admission, just gave me advice for the paper, including the D/s dynamic.

(For psych nerds, because I know you're out there, the paper was about attention seeking behavior when it comes to negative and positive reward. I was using the example of bratting Daddy to be punished as a form of positive reward because it gives me His attention.)

[Kandi_PumpkinPie]

I have a few friends in the BDSM scene, most of them know about Little me and the majority are ok with it. Most of my 'nilla friends know Im the kinky one in the group XD But I only have one 'nilla friend who knows about Little me. She's been my best friend for years and she's so super supportive about it. She buys me a special "Little" present when its Christmas or my bday which is super nice of her  

[RPcat18]

Update: bit worried I freaked her out a bit when she found out diapers were involved but she hasn't ran to the hills or anything so I'm trying not to worry too much...which is kinda hard for me. However she did react really well to finding out I was a little, I think because it explains allot about me to her. I'm kinda butch and normally have an aversion to most things girly or childish, which she now gets is basically me just compensating.

[Guest thatlittlerebella]

I don't really have any vanilla friends so all my friends know about my various kinks and I know about theirs. My parents know about me being involved with the local/national BDSM community and what some of my interests are because we have an open relationship and it was sort of difficult to hide marks from certain scenes around them. Plus they wanted to know what "clubs" I kept on going to in case there ever was some sort of disaster or something they knew where I was, which I can respect. They reacted pretty well when it we started talking about the whole BDSM thing and I'm sure they have an idea about being into DD/lg and ABDL but it's none of their business so they don't pry or ask. 

[Kitten Cupcake]

So far I told 3 of my best friends, my sister and my therapist. My friends reacted alright aside from the male (he thinks it's abusive etc)

and my sister who didn't understand anything I was trying to tell her lol. But yeah not many people know~ but they do c:

[Guest Pouty Kitten]

I believe most of my friends are aware of my dynamic with Daddy. It was a little tough to bring it up but once I did, I felt so much better.

[DaddysLittleDani]

Only my close friends are aware of my DD/lg relationship with Daddy.They understood it all and they were open to it. After I told them, I felt a loooot better.

[Quephen]

I wouldn't say I'm closely guarded about it, but it's not something I go around wearing on my sleeves either. At the end of the day it's our relationship, and if it's healthy for the both of us then nobody has any right to comment on our interpersonal dynamic.

[Teacup]

The only people who know are two of my online friends (who are both very open and into their own kink stuff) and more recently, my best friend. She divulged her own kinky interest and I shared mine. It was awesome getting it off my chest to someone who I've known for so long (and having them be totally cool with it)

[ddbbc]

I actually just told my closest friend two days ago, and he was very accepting of me. I told him I was a dd looking for a kitten/bg and how I felt, he was just very understanding, felt good to let someone know

[Guest Aela]

I haven't told anyone. Not even my bestest of friends. Just a mere mention any term bdsm related makes them all very judgmental. So i pretty much just keep things to myself.

[SoCalMoose]

I have told a long distance online friend, but that's about it. I have a few IRL friends that follow my tumblr, but I doubt they pay that much attention when I mention things about DDlg or pet play... most of them know my affinity towards kemonomimi in general...
I plan on telling one of my long time friends/ex-gf when she comes down to visit next month. She's one of the few people that I would trust to understand without judging me.
I should really just tell a few of my best friends, maybe it'll make it easier to find someone who's into the same stuff IRL.

[meowprxncess]

Unfortunately only people within the community (that would know anyway due to my username/tweets/photos) but no, none of my friends. They even judge when I say I talk to guys online..