Which is harder to find as a bisexual little? Mommy or Daddy?

[Potaeto]

I know its hard to find a caregiver that would be compatible to littles but this made suddenly popped up in my head. Which is harder to find? A mommy? Or a Daddy? Edited April 1, 2018 by Potaeto

[xBabydollx]

A Mommy. Always. Straight or not. Daddy Dom/little girl is just much more easier to find. Everything else/every other combo is pretty rare

[Guest Little Otter]

There aren't a lot of mommies, unfortunately. I got lucky I think in finding mine.

[griffinlord775]

Mommies are almost impossible to find. It's easier if you're still a female little, but it is difficult regardless. They are out there, but likely not on places like this. First reply said it best.
 

 

Daddy Dom/little girl is just much more easier to find. 

[Guest ScorpioBeastWolf]

Indeed mommy for sure but in today's world, it is hard to find real Daddy too. Many woman still don't show up their dominant sides, reason the horrible formation of these societies which has been trying to suppress women. And also people who are fake enter into ddlg world, destroying the purity of D/S lifestyle

[MadelynVictoria]

I think mommies are hard to find regardless of your orientation since they're less common than daddies

[neworder]

Indeed mommy for sure but in today's world, it is hard to find real Daddy too. Many woman still don't show up their dominant sides, reason the horrible formation of these societies which has been trying to suppress women. And also people who are fake enter into ddlg world, destroying the purity of D/S lifestyle

 

Oh I wouldn't put 100% of the blame on society / patriarchy. Go look in nature and you will find male and female have very different behavior - with no society to blame:

 

Birds... some species the male plays different roles, whether or not to contribute to nest building, feeding young, etc.

Birds in my area: A male carolina wren will partially construct a nest and the attracted female will complete it.

Both male and female downy woodpeckers will carve out a nest in a tree trunk.

Most male woodpeckers incubate eggs at night while both will during the day.

The female bluebird does all the nest building. And some species are monogamous while some are not.

 

Perhaps most societies designed social constructs of male and female behavior based on natural instinct... and it's MODERN society which is trying to go against the natural instinct of humans? Because of technology, it's possible to do so without going extinct... but such a sudden behavior change in an entire species could cause extinction.... like if all the female birds of one species decided to not incubate eggs and the male wasn't programmed to incubate.

 

Here's photos ( https://imgur.com/a/JOb64 )  I took last weekend of eastern bluebirds: eggs not yet being incubated, and the male bringing food back for the female (he ate his at the feeder). Society didn't teach him that.

Edited April 9, 2018 by neworder

[pinkenergy]

I'm an aspiring mommy, and I have to say female littles who want mommies are hard to come by.. so if we mommies are hard to come by ourselfs then a mommy/little relationship must be like a shooting star. But it can be tough being a mommy. You gotta be the dominant one and I struggle with anxiety and insucurities so there's a lot you might have to overcome if you love littles. Edited April 9, 2018 by pinkenergy