soulmatewanted Posted March 31, 2018 Report Posted March 31, 2018 For how many of you is this sexual or non sexual. Or both. Have setup a poll x x xx 1
PrincessPear Posted March 31, 2018 Report Posted March 31, 2018 For me, it is both. However, I'm finding that there are a lot of daddies who are primarily sexual and a lot of littles who are not primarily sexual. Personally, I need someone who can stimulate my little/middle side non-sexually before they can do it to me sexually. The biggest downfalls with my previous daddies is that they were so focused on sex, they treated my littlespace/middlespace as a second priority. I like sexual stuff, but I also like non-sexual stuff, so when a daddy dives right in with sex talk, it's a turn-off. 1
Guest MermaidKiss Posted March 31, 2018 Report Posted March 31, 2018 Both for me. I'm Little almost 24/7 at least in some form, and we have sex in both adult and little space, just depends on our mood.
LittleKitten13 Posted April 1, 2018 Report Posted April 1, 2018 I am NOT sexual at all in my little space. Sexual things are terrifying to me when I'm little. Outside of littleness, I'm somewhat sexual.
Angel24 Posted April 1, 2018 Report Posted April 1, 2018 I said both because it has been in the past, but my little space has been nonsexual as of late.
soulmatewanted Posted April 1, 2018 Author Report Posted April 1, 2018 I can imagine for a lot of guys it can just be sexual yeah. Not to judge but some of them don't quite get it, and some are into it for the wrong reasons, just from what I have seen on some of these sites etc.. For me it's both. I find the non sexual side sexual if that make sense any sense? Like a cuddle can be non sexual. But a real meaningful loving cuddle I find very sexual. Maybe that explains it in some way?? 1
xpaciprincesss Posted April 2, 2018 Report Posted April 2, 2018 Voted both because it has been sexual in the past, in fact that’s how I first got into DDlg. Currently, I enjoy the non-sexual little space a lot more. Also, I find that as an age player, and being generally “childish”, the lines between what’s my little space and what’s not get a bit blurred sometimes, if that makes any sense.
cutelittlevixey Posted April 4, 2018 Report Posted April 4, 2018 my little side is definitely sexual.
Guest SUeB Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 There aren't different "sides" here, in that sense. This girl is an adult who has an innocent and childlike aspect to her personality sometimes. It doesn't switch on and off as though it's two separate characters. Yes, Master brings that out, and in life away from Him, it doesn't show itself at all, as there are kids, household chores, career, bills etc to deal with. In the same way as anyone has to wear different "hats" for different situations, rather than being two different people in one body, etc. But she is in a sexual, romantic relationship with her Master. That is all the time.
Petitchat Posted April 5, 2018 Report Posted April 5, 2018 (edited) I am both. My little and adult sides are profoundly entertwined, it's not something I can switch off (I can just supress the expression of my little side for situations like work, or anytime I need to take responsibility or I'm with not super close friends/family etc., but I always feel both little and adult, can only control how I behave, it's hard to explain). So like anyone, vanilla relationships included, there are times I feel sexual and times I don't, and it hasn't anything to do with being a little or not at the moment for me. What changes is how I behave and how I feel towards the act. If I feel more little, I'll still feel sexual attraction to my partner but I'll be needier and more affectionate (and naughty haha). It's when I'm the most submissive but I do tend to subdrop if it's intense. (But if I feel more adult we can be pretty much vanilla,and maybe more playful and relaxed, and it's great too.) But there are times I just want cuddling and non-sexual playing, and doing cute activities by myself. Luckily for me, by now mon nounours has learned quite well to distinguish if I'm sucking his fingers because I'm horny or if he's my human-sized comforting pacifier ^^ Edited April 5, 2018 by Petitchat
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