'Converting' a boyfriend to daddy?

[Cowsinthemeadow]

I was wondering if this was a thing! I know the title kinda sucks, but I didn't know what esle to say!   

Is it a common thing for a partner who doesn't know about DDLG to meet a little and become their daddy/phase into the community??

I'm someone who doesn't look for 'daddies' in particular when I'm dating. It's difficult because I'm not hugely into online dating, and a lot of places aimed at 'fetish communities' like ours are a bit too fetishy/sexual aimed for me and it makes me a bit uncomfy. :c 

I know well at the end of the day that DDLG is a fetish, but I don't want it to be the only basis for meeting some one.

[Cyrus]

Its not impossible, but it depends on the person. Some people just dont want anything to do with it, its all up to personal preference. 

[Guest infinitecases]

I met my Daddy without knowing anything about DDLG, my Daddy knew about it but had never been interested in participating... anyway, he realised I had all the traits of a Little and then introduced me to DDLG and it went from there. I don't think much changed in our relationship because he was caring anyway apart from rules, calling him Daddy and other names  

[TwilightSparklez]

This a personal opinion but I don't think you should look for a relationship in the hopes of changing someone. If you see the traits in him you can present the idea and if he doesn't like it then that should be the end of it if he seems intrigued and curious great! But a Daddy is a caregiver, leader, protector, and most of the times, because there are submissive Daddies, naturally Dominant you cannot suddenly make someone those traits it has to be part of who they are. 

 

Again that is not to say those traits aren't there and it's perhaps something you can introduce a partner to down the road but there should never be any idea of entering a partnership and looking to convert the person. How would you feel if a partner entered a relationship with you in hopes they can convert you to a 'mature adult' without a little side?

[Guest Little Otter]

My friend is a DD, but he didn't know until he got with a little and she explained it to him. He said it all fell naturally for him. As for me, my ex was a little and that's how I found this community. Unfortunately for her, I found out I was a little and not a DD so it didn't quite workout as a result. 

 

So being converted? IDK, but maybe a BF already finds some aspects of being a DD appealing, and just doesn't know it yet. Maybe try to feel him out, ask him what he thinks about giving you a bedtime or something. If he's receptive, then maybe have the talk.

[Guest curiousmiddle]

I think it's possible but I wouldn't get your hopes up. Explain to them that you're a little and being a little is important to you. Tell them that they don't need to do anything if they don't want to. You don't need a caregiver, but if they are interested, you guys can try it out. Do a little test run, a trial period to see if they're comfortable with the idea. If it's not for them, then that's that. 

[Cowsinthemeadow]

This a personal opinion but I don't think you should look for a relationship in the hopes of changing someone. If you see the traits in him you can present the idea and if he doesn't like it then that should be the end of it if he seems intrigued and curious great! But a Daddy is a caregiver, leader, protector, and most of the times, because there are submissive Daddies, naturally Dominant you cannot suddenly make someone those traits it has to be part of who they are. 

 

Again that is not to say those traits aren't there and it's perhaps something you can introduce a partner to down the road but there should never be any idea of entering a partnership and looking to convert the person. How would you feel if a partner entered a relationship with you in hopes they can convert you to a 'mature adult' without a little side?

Of course! I put 'convert' in parenthesis because it wasn't the word I necessarily wanted to use, but I couldn't come up with a better one. I was just more so wondering about how common it was to bring up DDLG to a partner who previously has no knowledge and experience how common it was for them to be willing and interested, and if that was how any of the DDs here got in, or if any littles had experience introducing a boyfriend to the community. c:

 

'convert' was probably the wrong choice of words   I'd never expect anyone to change like that because I wouldn't appreciate it being done to me. 

(And of course I wouldn't bring it up if the person didn't seem like the dom type or if we weren't serious.)