Is it harder for a gay male little to find daddies, than a female?

[Cryptex.]

I don't know if this is the place to post this, but its a question i often have. As a Homosexual male i find it more difficult

to find a daddy then the females. I've bumped my own topic on what i've been searching for and people look with no reply. 

Am i doing something wrong? Or am i just uncommon? Or do people just not seek males? 

[Guest BatsyTheEyeballQueen]

I dont think youre doing anything wrong, i feel like maybe either some people just arent looking at all or something like that, I do know that finding a daddy at all can be very complicated, and kinda stressful. I do think that finding a daddy as a male is a lot harder, maybe its just that there arent a lot of homosexual daddys or maybe they just arent on her. but dont let it discourage you. I know for a fact that you will find someone, I believe that every one deserves and will find that special person, so keep your head up and good luck ^^ 

<3

[Guest Arc]

Just because people don't reply doesn't mean you're doing something wrong. It just means it isn't what they're looking for, and that's just because of their preferance and wants. Wouldn't you rather someone genuinely interested in you rather than only moderately interested? The right person hasn't seen it yet but it doesn't mean they never will. 

 

Try Fetlife as well. They have a much larger community there so it will reach more people. 

[neworder]

Try to be patient and not discouraged. While I generally have in mind a female or female-identifying little... a little is a little to me.

While I have been little-less for over a year, since re-creating an account here, I haven't even posted a Personal nor sought after anyone.

I'd rather wait another year with no little for the perfect-for-me one to come around, than to have zero filter and have a succession of failed attempts due to incompatibility or haste.

[Guest BabyPeach]

I think a lot of people look at DDlg personals out of curiosity with no intention of replying.  So, don't worry about views with no replies.  It's hard to find a caregiver for a lot of us (unless you're an 18 year old, petite girl). Like neworder said, just have patience. I hope you find your Daddy soon!

[Cryptex.]

Thank you all for the love and feedback. After thinking about it i totally agree with you all. 

 

And for the fetlife. Sadly it isnt an option for me due to my phone currently being nonexistant. But i will give it a shot when i can.

[Guest SUeB]

To be honest, it's just unfortunately more difficult to find a partner if you are gay. Maybe partly due to the fact that a lot of gay people aren't open about being so. Added to the fact that being straight is just simply more common. So yes, that narrows down the dating pool. But more difficult certainly doesn't mean impossible.

Looked at another way, i guess a similar concept can be used for being a submissive woman, for example. If not for that aspect of myself, it would be much easier finding someone. But when you add any extra specification to what you are looking for, it "thins the herd" as it were.

So as a gay little, you have two specifications that will just make it that bit more tricky and time consuming.

[Guest DeOriginalMittens]

I think a lot of people look at DDlg personals out of curiosity with no intention of replying.  So, don't worry about views with no replies.  It's hard to find a caregiver for a lot of us (unless you're an 18 year old, petite girl). Like neworder said, just have patience. I hope you find your Daddy soon!

 

 

Hmm i don't know about that, I know my friend got a daddy and she is almost as old as me and is not petite at all. I would say it's all down to preference to be honest with you OP, I feel that it is harde r for a gay little to find a daddy than a female is because the gay community would have to be interested in DDLG, in which case, most LGBT I know really isn't interested in DDLG, and I don't see most of the LGBT people who hold the rallies and make the videos having time for that sort of lifestyle since it takes up to much time and effort and attention to be able to juggle it all. (not saying there aren't, that I would assume not many who were into it or did it.) Most also enjoy their alt and normal lifestyles and aren't always into BDSM or DDLG related topics from my experience. 

 

TLDR; The Male homosexual Daddy community of DDLG isn't as large as the Straight community. I do wish you better luck in your future though. :3

 

 

P.S To babypeach: in my experience with all my friends, friends of friends, and guy talk in locker rooms or other local places. Men tend to prefer healthy girls. Not chubby or overweight but not anorexic, too skinny, or petite per se. Though they do love short girls more than tall girls. But I only surround myself with friends who honestly would date anyone if they found the right girl. 

[DollDirector]

I agree with what DeOriginalMittens says and hope this is not a silly question,have you tried replying to personals on top of publishing one ? Heterosexual DDs who say they are in no hurry to be sexual,or can part-time daddy to more than one little,or have a girl who agrees to another little joining (I have seen that in personals) are another rarity but perhaps you might add these to the list of rare types you are looking for.

[Guest danithedragonborn]

I'm in the same boat! Most people are looking for your typical cisgender heterosexual relationship. Nothing wrong with that, but I just feel like I don't have any exposure. It makes me sad.

[DavidUK21]

There are some daddies here (myself included) that are just looking for a little regardless of gender. I’d be just as happy in a ddlb relationship as a ddlg. I suppose it’s about being patient and waiting for the right daddy to show up. As it is with heterosexual female littles to find daddies.