Debating ending it with my daddy...

[imdaddyslittledolly]

Sooo I never thought there was anything suspicious about my DD/LG relationship. I met a guy online, he liked being called daddy, i liked being called princess, so there he was my daddy. This being my first CG/L relationship, he helped me figure things out. He's very patient with me, we are long distance and i am a virgin in real life. He's the first person who's ever seen me not fully clothed, but he hasn't seen everything yet. We only MET 5 months ago and we didn't establish our relationship until a week after we met. It moved so fast, yet he was so patient. In the beginning, i refused to tell him my real name (I told him i went by a fake name online) or let him see my face. About a month into it, i told him my real first name and showed him my face. After that I got a lot more comfortable a lot more quicker. At this point, I am 100% comfortable with him. By now i should have his social media, phone number, and at least last name right? Nope I have none of those. I have his first name and kik, but he gave me those the night we met. We are only getting further sexually, role-play is a huge part of our relationship.

I feel like if he didn't want anything more than someone to play around with he wouldn't have been so patient with me or stuck around this long or message me 24/7. Why don't i get to follow him on Instagram? Why don't I get to know his last name? I know this may be kind of bad, but I did find out his last name and his Instagram and where he works secretly. He's not some criminal and it doesn't seem like he's hiding anything. I understand that we aren't boyfriend and girlfriend, we don't call each other "babe" or say "I love you". But we devote so much time to each other. Is this going to move further? Is he being to suspicious? It gives me so much anxiety sometimes. But I've had 3 panic attacks because my messages to him wouldn't go through. I need him so much, yet I wonder if I'd be better off without him sometimes. I don't know what to do.    

[junebug0325]

Personally, I think he is suspicious.

 

Have you tried bringing this up into a conversation? I think if you talk to him about it, it might provide you with closure on the subject.

 

If you have tried to talk about it recently and he is still refusing to give you any more information, then I think it might be time to say, "Either you tell me, or I'm leaving."

 

You never know, maybe it is because he is self-conscious, or maybe it is because he is not actually who he says he is. 

 

Either way, it is very suspicious and I caution you about the relationship you are having with him.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks for reading!

Edited March 29, 2018 by junebug0325

[Guest Arc]

We can't tell you what's going on because we're not him, and we can't tell you what to do because that's not our place. So like always... talk to him. Be blunt. Ask whatever concerns you have, and ask where he sees it going between you. Only he can answer these things. Communication is super important, and if he can't communicate honestly and openly then I would be taking that as some kind of warning. 

[TheDaddyest]

I agree with June. Someone who isn't open about things that late into a relationship but was open about things you weren't open about first. It's classic manipulation in my opinion. 

[Daddydragons]

It's easy to be fake. Especially for a Daddy. As a Daddy who has been seeking a lityle, this is a problem across all aspects og DD/lg. I hope everything works out for you.

[Guest RedDragon]

Whether you're a little or a cg, if it doesn't feel good then it's not worth the effort. Just my opinion, but feelings are the barometer in my book. If the relationship doesn't feel good, I know there's one out there that will. It takes patience and that's so hard sometimes. But feeling good about the person you're with is what it's all about, right?

[Guest SUeB]

Its quite clearly an online sexy play thing to him. Thats it. If thats what you want, carry on. If not, move on. Sorry to be so blunt, but this girl would put money on it being nothing more serious than that for this guy. That doesn't make him a bad person, it just sounds like you want different things.

[PrincessPear]

Its quite clearly an online sexy play thing to him. Thats it. If thats what you want, carry on. If not, move on. Sorry to be so blunt, but this girl would put money on it being nothing more serious than that for this guy. That doesn't make him a bad person, it just sounds like you want different things.

 

Seconded. I say bring it up to him and if he doesn't get real with you, dump him. 

[Déphysios]

Knowing exactly who the other is is indispensable in a fulfilling relationship. But you may not both be looking for the same thing. You should talk about it sincerely to clarify things.