What do you look for in a Daddy?

[junebug0325]

Hi everyone!

 

So I've recently posted in the "Personal" page and I've been receiving a lot of replies from potential caregivers?

 

All of them are super nice and I have a few that I notice immediate connections with. 

 

What are some things I should be looking for when talking to these people? 

 

Any suggestions would be super helpful since I am new into this lifestyle.

 

 

 

 

 

Thanks for reading! 

[Guest TheLittlestMouse]

I actually took time to make a list! I have had it for sometime now. You can use mine or even make up your own.

 

 

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1. Checks on me to see if i am ok

2. Is a friend but also a daddy

3. Can have a good conversation

4. Is encouraging

5. Emotionally mature

6. Reliable

7. Has decent communication skills

8. Is patiant

9. Not to controlling

10. Allows himself to be vulnerable 11. Makes me laugh/ is funny

12. Is understanding

13. Is nurturing

14. Is kind/caring

15. is affetionate

16. Is playful

17. Is trusting

18. Is loyal

19. Is respectful

20. is ok my little space is non sexual

[junebug0325]

Thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to write that reply! I really appreciate it! 

[Guest BabyPeach]

One red flag for me is when a potential Daddy (the keyword is potential...Daddy is an earned title that I don't give to just anyone) tries to start with dirty talk or ask for dirty/sexy pictures quickly.  No thanks, not for me. Just throwing that out there.  Be careful when looking.

 

Sunshine made a lovely list.  I think those are wonderful things to look for in a caregiver.

[Guest SweetPurpleCherry]

I think the first (and maybe only) thing i'd look for is kindness. Being a Daddy wouldn't make any sense without this quality

 

There is no specific rule about it, just take your time to know them better, and if you see anything you're not comfy with, just say it. Don't worry, it will come naturally

[imdaddyslittledolly]

1. Patience

2. Willingness to listen

3. Shares common interests

4. Expects the same outcome 

5. Easy to communicate with

those are just some, the list goes on and on...

[junebug0325]

Thanks for all of those who have commented! It's really helped!