need addvice about how to act or be a little...

[smith154]

hi i'm new to being a little an i just met an amazing daddy that actually treats me right an i would like some addvice on how i should or could act that might please my new daddy.... anyone plz reply..

[MrBonesWildRide]

I'm leaving this thread open. 3 threads with copy+pasted bodies are not necessary to get your point across. Let the discussion start here.

[Guest QueenJellybean]

If you go into a relationship wondering what you can do to please your partner rather than what you can do to make yourself and your partner happy, it becomes a one-sided relationship very quickly. Be yourself. Don't ever put yourself in a position where you find that you need to be questioning how you can change yourself into something that will make another person happy or full. You are enough to keep that person satisfied, and if you aren't, then they aren't the right person for you.

 

That being said, be respectful. Be honest, even when it's difficult to be. Be genuine. Be kind. (Have courage and be kind, take a page from Cinderella.) Don't forget about your own needs and wants. Communicate. Ask him what he wants/needs out of a partner. Discuss jointly what the two of you want out of a relationship. Make this a partnership, a team, a unit. Forge trust in each other, and the rest will come easily. 

 

Although it may be hard to remember, try not to doubt yourself. You have a lot to offer. <3

[Beckie]

My little is based on the childhood I never had, not as depressing as it sounds I promise. I let that side of me go. I spent time looking through my old stuff and old tv shows. I bought a stuffed dog and my side took off from there. Tumblr helped a lot too. I explored ddlg blogs and saw myself in some of the posts and applied it to my persona. I just formed myself around who I am.

 

If you go into a relationship wondering what you can do to please your partner rather than what you can do to make yourself and your partner happy, it becomes a one-sided relationship very quickly. Be yourself. Don't ever put yourself in a position where you find that you need to be questioning how you can change yourself into something that will make another person happy or full. You are enough to keep that person satisfied, and if you aren't, then they aren't the right person for you.

 

That being said, be respectful. Be honest, even when it's difficult to be. Be genuine. Be kind. (Have courage and be kind, take a page from Cinderella.) Don't forget about your own needs and wants. Communicate. Ask him what he wants/needs out of a partner. Discuss jointly what the two of you want out of a relationship. Make this a partnership, a team, a unit. Forge trust in each other, and the rest will come easily. 

 

Although it may be hard to remember, try not to doubt yourself. You have a lot to offer. <3

You make a very valid point and I just got out of this type of relationship, so I can vouch that this is 100% true rules to follow. COMMUNICATION IS KEY IN ANY RELATIONSHIP!!

You also need to have confidence in yourself first and foremost. I felt awkward at first letting my little side out, but I discovered my real life friends liked it about me too. Since I discovered it without a partner, it would come out around my friends. I'd call stuffed animals stuffies and they would love it about me. I'm the adorable one!! I would even talk younger too and it was actually okay. But don't be embarrassed about it at all. It is who you are and you may not be able to change it, so embrace it!!!! ^-^

[LB Chris]

Like any relationship, it's a work in progress however I'd caution against the idea of seeing your needs soley on pleasing him because there's a recipicality in here, the things you do together are about meeting one anothers needs to the satisfaction of both of you although I think we get (and many have felt) the "I like to please daddy" feeling.

To me it seems there's a conversation to be had be it formal or just in the course of playing with him where you need to saying what you'd like to do and he should be asking you how you feel about things he may like to do with you. Why not just try it?

[Daddy dizbcuz]

First and foremost always be yourself never bend your will to make another happy your #1 to and for yourself if unacceptable to the other then they are not for you your either accepted as you are

and for who you are or their not a supportive partner to have to allow you to nurture the side of you that needs to grow and develop to a level that you are comfortable with hope I didn't complicate anything for you and again welcome with sincerity Daddy dizbcuz

[Lisa]

Ask him.