dd/lg? sub? mid? I need help

[littleone082214]

Okay, I like to think of myself as a little, or did I have been reading a lot and all of my kinks and things I like and want lead me to be this incestual, filthy, innocent, little, middle, switch, dom and I have no clue what to think. I would say I have daddy issues, not exactly I wanna bang my dad but I never really had a male figure in my life to show me love, guide, support, and help me. I would love to have that in a partner. Me and my boyfriend of 3 years recently opened the doors to dd/lg lifestyle. We have a rough past, 2 kids, and hes the only one working so hes always busy or tired. We make do with what we have but I cant seem to get over a couple little insecurity issues, and well daddy issues. He is into sharing me, and him with others, guys and girls, but i dont want him to talk to any girls or do anything with them, I am also very shy so the thought of trying to meet someone new scares me lol I have agreed to do a gloryhole type where you dont really talk or see each other and he is ok with that. 

 

Oh & he said he is ok with no girls lol

 

[Guest SweetPurpleCherry]

I'm sorry but... how can we help?

 

I'll be honest with you, i just wouldn't accept the idea that my partner (DD or any kind of relationship) would ever want to share me. Even more if he's my Daddy btw, first of all because he's supposed to be the "male figure" you just mentionned. That implies that he's supposed to want to take care of you, not fantasize about sexually offering you to other men.

 

It sounds more like a "dominant game" to me, which has nothing to do with DDlg, were Daddies are supposed to spoil and take care of their littles

Knowing that you have Daddy issues, i'm sure you can manage a beautiful relationship, if your partner wants to help you grow and supports you everytime you need.

 

 

It's just my opinion btw, so i'm not sure if it helps.

I just hope that your boyfriend is not pressuring you on having sex w/ multiple partners just "to prove him you love him". It's basically abuse, and i hope you won't accept his requests if you're not comfy with it.