how do i get more spankies???

[Guest glitter bunny]

what are some ways you intentionally misbehave to get spankies? what do you do by accident that gets you in trouble?

 

i want to get spanked by daddy but i dont want to make him /mad/. is that actually the point? 

[Guest lil-kitten22]

you could always ask for spankies?

[Guest glitter bunny]

true and i have considered it. but isnt it more satisfying when its earned? ;3

[xBabydollx]

It sounds like u want to be a brat for spankings but dont want him to be mad....so the only way he won't be mad is if u talk to him in advance and see if he likes bratty besavior. Ask him about bratty behavior he likes and what he can't stand (so u know what lines not to cross). Remember that the key aspect of this lifestyle is consent. If ur Daddy doesn't consent to being treated that way by u, then yeah he will be mad, and it will put strain on ur dynamic. If he consented and everything have been discussed in advance then you'll have nothing to worry about. If u keep acting out for spankings, but its behavior he doesn't like or want, then yeah there will be a problem. I know it can seen boring or not spontenous to discuss things in advance, but it is truly the best and safest way to go before any form of play. The more u both are on the same page, the more satisfied u both will be. The more u are not on the same page, it leaves room for confusion, regret, and general dissatisfaction for both of u.

[Guest SUeB]

No, for someone completely devoted to being obedient and well behaved for her Daddy/Master, and to please Him and make Him happy, this girl would rather die than purposely earn anything that would constitute punishment. If she needs a discipline spanking (which is not the same as punishment), she respectfully asks for it. And He is happy to oblige.

[Guest glitterpoppy]

I never ask for spankies, I just simply misbehave until I get one. Hehe.   

[Guest Arc]

I prefer to be a good girl, and I try very hard to be one. Punishment is not enjoyable for me because it means I have done wrong, and that is upsetting to me. 

 

If I want a spanking for play or discipline then I ask for it, or I wait until we play because Daddy is very fond of spanking and impact. But I would never play up for it. 

[LittleKitten13]

No, for someone completely devoted to being obedient and well behaved for her Daddy/Master, and to please Him and make Him happy, this girl would rather die than purposely earn anything that would constitute punishment. If she needs a discipline spanking (which is not the same as punishment), she respectfully asks for it. And He is happy to oblige.

I'm a little bit confused....  What is the difference between a discipline spanking and a punishment spanking?

[xBabydollx]

The difference is the emotional context behind it. Many refer to what they are talking about as 'funishment' and I believe it is what the OP is referring to as well. A funishment is when the Dom gives a form of impact play or other things (like spankings for example). In the moment it is done out of fun and because both partners enjoy it. Punishment on the other hand is not dont out of enjoyment. The context changes. Now u are being spanked (for example) because ur Dom is disappointed in u, or have found u displeasing. Because of the emotional displeasure tied to the spanking, the sub/little/pet etc is not likely to enjoy it even if they usually love being spanked. So while many subs desire funishment, I have yet to meet any who desire true punishment because it is not in (a usual I would say) subs nature to want to be aannoying, unpleasing, unpleasent, and a disappoint to their Dom/Daddy. So, usually a sub/little/pet will do anything to avoid true punishment.

[Princess Bunni]

Daddy knows I love spankies, so I never get them as a punishment. I get good girl spankies for when I've been good, and during play time with Daddy. I never intentionally act out to get punished because I don't like feeling like I've disappointed Daddy.

 

As xBabydollx said, you need to talk to your Daddy about wanting more spankies first before you intentionally start misbehaving. You might cross a line and really upset your Daddy, which could result in something way worse than a spanking.

[Moonstone]

I'm a brat, and I love to push daddy's limits, but within reason.  I know what my daddy's limits are and I know how to read his moods.  Sometimes, he's not in the mood for me to disobey, and I try to be respectful of that when that's the case.  Just keep in mind that some daddies, mommies, masters, etc. don't feel loved when you disobey.  Just have a talk with your daddy and let him know that you've discovered that you're a bit brattier than you initially realized.  Ask him if it would bother him if you intentionally tested his boundaries from time to time and see what he says.  I'm lucky to have a daddy who appreciates my playful, bratty nature, and he loves putting me back in my place when I get out of line.  Again though, there are times when all he wants is obedience, and you have to be able to decipher when that's the case.  In other words, know your daddy and know him well.       

[RavenclawPrincess]

My daddy picks up on what I want when I "misbehave" in a playful/flirtatious manner. No disrespect or hurt feelings involved and I don't break the rules but I still "earn" my spankies.

[neworder]

If he's doing something sitting down, like watching a game or movie on TV or reading... put on a skirt and pink cotton panties and crawl on your stomach onto his lap with your bottom right below him. Be restless and wiggle around a lot so he can't concentrate, and poke your bottom in the air. Hopefully he will be more annoyed than turned on... and wishes will come true. Maybe a dash of pet play like pretend you are a meowing kitten that doesn't know human talk. Just don't break a rule intentionally to get spankies - a peeve of mine. 

[LittleSweetCheeks]

One time a broke a rule just to see if Daddy would punish me. He did. It was not fun! He told me how disappointed he was in me, spanked me (hard), and of course provided aftercare. I nearly cried. Not from the spanking, but because I did not like letting him down. 

 

So now if I want spankies, I wait for playtime (because it's going to happen) or do things to show him I want it like laying in his lap in a short skirt with frilly panties, or wiggling my butt around. He picks up on these cues and then give me funishment. 

[SharkPrince]

I get 'maintenance' spankies. In which every friday I get a set number just to remind me to be good. Stops me being bratty just for the spankies

[Newbie72]

I have a new daddy and I sort of want a spanking. He told me he would never hurt me

[SweetiePieBabyBee]

be a brat >:3c 

 

it always works for me