Hello! new here. And i need some advice

[mjb97]

I was hoping to get some advice regarding my bratty little. She is the first sub ive had in a long distance relationship.

 

Lately ive been having some trouble diciplining her. Shes bratty and disobeys every once in a while which is expected. However she has been starting to disobey her punishments. I will assigm her a punishment and she will flat out say no. Shes.told me she wants me to make her do.them.

 

How can i enforce them if i am miles away? Any suggestions?

Edited March 22, 2018 by mjb97

[Guest BabyPeach]

Ask her adult to adult how she expects you to do that.

[PrincessLilBug]

Well for one, it depends on the punishment. You need to have a serious discussion that she needs to listen to your punishments if she actually wants to have them, and that you can't force her do something if she doesn't listen. Since you're LDR it's really difficult because you can't physically take anything away, and really the only thing you can take away is you... You can always enforce quiet time where you don't talk to her no matter what for an hour or shorter because she's been bad. You could always threaten to just take away punishments and rewards in general if she doesn't listen. 

[mjb97]

I see. Im going to have to have a talk with and her and explain that. Thankyou guys!

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

You might find more information here: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/30877-ldr-little-will-not-follow-rules/

[Guest SUeB]

And why do you see disobedience as something to be expected? Master expects the exact opposite of His girl (speaking in 3rd person by His instruction)

Maybe you mean in terms of a brat. But it's certainly not expected from subs in general.

[neko]

It's obvious he meant it in terms of a brat.

 

Personally I think you should just talk to her outside of her little/brat space so you can get a clear picture of what she wants

[Guest SUeB]

Not necessarily obvious. Highly likely, definitely, but certainly not obvious.

[Tekken]

You should never expect your bratty little to break the rules she might poke at them but never break them. Secondly guidance over correction i have found works way bettet with s brat. Also you likely need to work on the inner domance side. If my little ever broke a rule she would feel so guilty aboit it that there is little need for a punishment

 

Give her s piece of paper and s pencil

Have her answer these questions

1 what did you do

2 why did you do it

3 how do you feel about it

4 if in public how do you think others feel about what you did

 

Then after guide her through her decisions until she understand why she really acted out

 

 

Punishment should never be enjoyable to anyone period. If you have alittle that enjoys being spank rp it like for instance have her fake do something bad and role play the punishment.

Edited April 21, 2018 by Tekken