why does my daddy act like that?

[littleprincesscamz]

he’s weird sometimes. he forces me out of little space and i get so upset when he does that. i don’t know why it happens or if he does that on purpose, maybe he gets fed up with me being little? i really don’t know what to think.

[Rebel]

You're just going to have to ask him and talk to him. None of us can tell you his reasoning, because we aren't him. 

[Lavender Candy]

Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that.

 

I think you should have a long talk with him about what's going on. Explain how he makes you feel when he forces you out of little space. If he wasn't doing intentionally, it still helps to let him know that his action hurts your feelings. You should also tell him that you'd appreciate if he was more careful about saying things like that.

 

If he was forcing out of your little space intentionally, have an even longer talk about why he wants to force you out of your little space. Does he not like being in ddlg? Make sure to use Non-Violent Communication so he won't get defensive or it won't escalate into a fight. Once you figure out the reason he does it, you should discuss whether it's a conflict that can be fixed and how. Do you need to sacrifice something in order to fix that conflict, and if so, is it worth it to continue your relationship?

 

I hope everything goes okay, and let me know if you need a person to talk to!

 

Much love!

[xBabydollx]

How does he force u out of littlespace? He probably doesn't realize he's doing it. The only way to get to the bottom of it is sit him down, have a conversation outside of ur dynamic/roles (as in adult to adult with no roles involved), and let him know that certain actions or words have been pulling u out of littlespace. Offer him suggestions on how to fix it. However, if u learn he is doing it on purpose, ask him why doesn't he want u in littlespace? Ask if the amount of time u are spending in littlespace are too much for him? Ask him for ways to fix it/find a mutual ground for u both to be happy. Do not point fingers at him, make assumptions, or try to make him feel bad. Calmly say how u are feeling and why, and give him the chance to explain himself. Be mindful of ur choice of wordings during ur conversation. Wording is the big difference between a good and productive conversation and someone getting offended/upset so easily and nothing ends up getting fixed.

[Guest Arc]

Most problems can be solved with communication. Ask him! We don't know his reasons or intentions. 

[neko]

how are we suppose to know why, someone we dont know, does something?

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

Oh man, I am so glad I took that mind reading class!

 

It is because he doesn't like the color red - it makes him vindictive and cruel. The answer to your problem is to keep him away from all shades of red.

 

Dayum, I should have my own psychic radio hour!

[Guest SUeB]

Maybe he just doesn't like you being in little space. Not all daddies like that kind of thing. There are many different kinds of daddies, just as there are many different kinds of lg. Ask him what his problem is. Have an adult conversation.

[Guest gobacktosleep]

As an example, i loved when my LG was in little space, but sometimes it could be overwhelming as you always have to be attentive and it is a lot of (worth it!) hard work. Occasionally i would need a night, or few hours of growdup time to set my head straight, I would never force her out of little space, but would request a break. 

 

It's all about compromise sometimes.

[littleprincesscamz]

Oh man, I am so glad I took that mind reading class!

It is because he doesn't like the color red - it makes him vindictive and cruel. The answer to your problem is to keep him away from all shades of red.

Dayum, I should have my own psychic radio hour!

its his fav color lol

[Guest Arc]

You haven't even said how he forces you out. Does he stand there and tell you to snap out of it? Does he do something that causes you to bring yourself out? You've said so little. We don't know him. You aren't going to achieve anything by posting here. You'll only get somewhere by talking to him.