Fake littles on this site? or what?

[Little Illy]

It seems to me that the majority of littles here dont actually want a "daddy" they just want someone to give them attention while they are bored, then they move onto the next object.

 

keep your head up....been ghosted several times and they always just go back into the forum and act like nothing ever happened. If you feel like, start calling them people out.

 

 

Ah, I would not recommend that. I would, however, recommend screenshotting this ghosting behavior and send it to the mod team. They are here to prevent this kinda of thing (if it is excessive). Don't get yourself in trouble by starting shit on the forum because someone was a ghoster - don't let them drag you down with them. Just get your evidence, submit it with an explaination and move on. Best course of action.

[Little Illy]

There are a lot of women in general who are extremely manipulative and decieving these days.

They weren't raised to value others, period, so they are extremely selfish, period.

They conflate this with being a 'little' when it's not. A little is always sugary sweet at least part of the time.

If you never get messaged first, thanked, etc then you aren't dealing with a little.

You're dealing with a plain gold digger who will do anything to find security.

This is extremely common since the 90s and is seen as acceptable behaviour by at least 80% of women, I would say otherwise however i've experienced it myself.

MGTOW is a response to this attitude causing decades of abuse.

If you want to find a real Little your chances are really slim and you really need to know what your red flags are.

 

Honestly this entire response is a big ol' red flag. There are a lot of PEOPLE, not just women. Being an asshole isn't a gender based issue. And I think you blanketing all littles who don't fit YOUR mold as "not real" is a good example of that.

 

Yes, the new-age approach to "dating" is unsavory, but it is universal over the genders and sexual orientations. No one is free from responsibility to it. As for what makes a "real" little, I hope people don't follow what you say. Message first? Always sugary sweet?  Otherwise they are a gold digger? I'm sorry, is a Little a robot?? Have you ever thought that if a man is frequently being approached by this type of woman, it is because that is the vibe he is putting out there? Lacking sincerity or personal accountability? It is too easy to blame everyone else than realize that, hey! You might not be putting in the effort and PATIENCE to get a person of quality.

 

I actually agree with you that Misandry is a real issue in our world today. But so is misogyny. The radical "feminists" do give us a bad name, but so do men who refuse to recognize most of us are NOT like that and actually support males in an inherently male role. 

 

Want to talk about toxic experiences? I've had frightening close calls with men online. I have been verbally abused, stalked, threatened and much more and much worse with men online before I could even rejected them for being toxic. It is not just a female trait. And more men need to open their eyes and accept that fact.

Edited May 14, 2018 by Little Illy

[Little Illy]

I am also going to leave this here, just for those who aren't sure exactly what 'Fake' may mean and when it shouldn't be used:

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/23301-fake-it-needs-to-stop/ (SFW)

[Little Illy]

Sorry but i'm never going to accept a Littles' opinion on what constitutes a fake little.

 

So frankly i don't care what anyone elses' opinion is and i'm not going to stop labelling people as fake doms -or- subs.

If you disrespect your partners' needs on either side of the dynamic, you are a fake, period.

 

Then frankly, you don't own up to any responsibility? Never once did I negate the fact you have probably dealt with fake littles. I even AGREE that misandry is a real problem in our society... aka women oppressing men. Yet you will never accept my opinion because I am a little.

 

All I am saying is it seems like you may be jumping to fast for some people, and that is based off of the many posts or replies I have read of yours. People aren't fake just because they don't go your speed. If you can't accept that, then people could easily call YOU fake. But no one is doing that even though you are being quite narrow minded. You expect them all to message first, be sweet as sugar, be at your beck and call because you are "needy/clingy" right off the bat. Being clingy isn't a limit, it is a need. And there are PLENTY of women who can't meet your needs, does not make them fake. It means you two aren't compatible.

 

And why am I even trying here.... you obviously are set in your mind and nothing is going to change it. I only hope you will realize these things like instant gratification in meeting littles wont work. That the beginning stages of getting to know someone, no one is required to supply the endless stream of attention people want. Nothing is set in stone until yall act like adults and discuss whatever dynamic you want. It doesn't seem like you even give them a chance (again, from your other posts), and its sad. 

 

I honestly hope you get what you need, but I also hope you realize these women aren't fake just because they don't meet your expectations,

[Little Illy]

Also - that thread? Was saying how Littles typically accuse Daddies of being fake, and that not being fair. And that was made by a little.

[Guest Urthurs]

If you disrespect your partners' needs on either side of the dynamic, you are a fake, period.

Nah, I would say it just makes you a self centered asshole.

[LilMidPrincess]

Oh this post is scary lol there are a lot of men who come on for pictures too. Smh its a shame. But we're not all bad