Is it impossible to find Daddies/CGs offline?

[Guest ElleWolffiee]

Sorry if this is the wrong place for this, I'm really curious! As some one who is really nervous with online dating, I'm wondering if anyone's managed to find their daddy or CG in real life, or turned their SO into a CG! Sometimes I worry I'll never have a dom because online dating really isn't for me :')

[Cactar]

Kinda going to copy what New Order told me.

 

This is semi-online but, have you tried searching for people in your area on fetlife? You could also look for groups in your area that might get together in public like at restaurant and hang out.

Edited March 17, 2018 by Cactar

[Guest Prat]

No it isn't.

[Chocochic]

Less chances now as social media  is rife but definitely possible as theres stil lexis traditional people

Edited March 17, 2018 by Chocochic

[neworder]

 

Kinda going to copy what New Order told me.

 

This is semi-online but, have you tried searching for people in your area on fetlife? You could also look for groups in your area that might get together in public like at restaurant and hang out.

 

 

 

seach that site for Vancouver Munch for an example.. the next one is March 27. 

[DollDirector]

You are not saying why you think online dating is not for you.

 

I would myself certainly prefer things to happen naturally but I think the best way today is a mix.

Think about it: If you spot someone IRL are you not going to want to get their number in order to message them later or something,because otherwise,depending on circumstances you risk not meeting the person again.

And if you are to start online,by a conversation on a site like this one here,I believe in prioritizing people living in what you consider to be your area,and be clear that you will want to meet IRL as soon as possible,to keep the situation as close as possible to something happening naturally.

[neko]

There are tons of people that are in a relationship IRL with their daddy/little. it just takes a lot of time.

 

I met my daddy in a kik group and hung out a week later when we found out we lived in the same area.

 

You gotta work for it. You cant just expect a Daddy to fall in your lap. Check personals, attend munches and other events.

[Guest littleloveslars]

You could try finding groups in your area that meet regularly. There are lots of organizations. Fetlife lists a lot of them but there are other resources.

[Guest aphroditelaughs]

I met my partner on a vanilla dating site. Since we lived close our relationship has been entirely offline. I introduced him to BDSM and DDlg, which came with its own challenges and anxieties. It's not impossible by any means. Just that the work you have to put in is a little different, because places like the forum or fetlife allow you to be more upfront.

[Guest Arc]

I met my Daddy irl at an event. Maybe check out groups around you and attend munches if they have any. 

[princessfreckles]

 

Kinda going to copy what New Order told me.

 

This is semi-online but, have you tried searching for people in your area on fetlife? You could also look for groups in your area that might get together in public like at restaurant and hang out.

 

I've always wanted to go to a munch, but I've got so many questions and Idk if I'd fit in. I've wanted to try fetlife, but I'm not sure how well I'd do on there. Overall when it comes to online dating situations I'm not successful at all. 

 

Thanks to the OP for posting this question that I've been curious about for a while.

[neko]

In my opinion if you really wanted to find a Caregiver you would put yourself out there and find one. There's a million excuses you could make for why you can't go to events or talk to people online but at the end of the day you're just hurting yourself.

[TwilightSparklez]

In my opinion if you really wanted to find a Caregiver you would put yourself out there and find one. There's a million excuses you could make for why you can't go to events or talk to people online but at the end of the day you're just hurting yourself.

Agreed. South Florida is honestly the hardest place to find a caregiver our DDlg community is barely existent unless you travel 4-5hrs away to Orlando but I still make it out to as many events as I can attend the munches and TNG because one never knows what might happen.

[CaresAlot]

Online dating is like advertising yourself.  If you put out a good advertisement, then you have a better chance to make a sale.  The more information that there is out there, the more likely you are to find somebody that you are looking for.  Too often there are personals that have only the minimal information.  If a Daddy or CG can see who you are then you will have a better chance of success.  Plus it helps weed out those that are looking for something else.  You did a great post on things that make you feel little.  Add that to your profile.  The age or ages that you feel most comfortable in being.  What are you looking for a DD or CG or somewhere in between.

Try and stay on the positive side, keep it about what you want and not so much about what you don't want.  This is just like detailing your car, wash, wax and getting it ready to go.  If you suck at writing ask for help.  There are some really good friends and mentors on here.

[Guest bunnybear11]

DDLG totally doesn't have to be an online thing, long distance relationships r super hard n not for me so I get u.

 

I introduced ddlg to my SO in the beginning of our relationship and this has been such an amazing intense journey for us, I can say for sure I've never been this happy before.

 

I understand this is a little bit hard, and we tend to be very scared of their reactions and very insecure, but it can completely change your life for the better. It can and will make your relationship so much more special.

[RavenclawPrincess]

I have a real life daddy! We were married before we got into DDlg but we did initially first meet online. It happens for lots of people! I would imagine that finding a daddy right off the bat in real life is difficult but maybe dating someone in real life and introducing DDlg as something you're interested in could make the dynamic happen for you outside of an online relationship?

[Guest RedDragon]

As a daddy, I tried to begin a relationship vanilla and introduced ddlg and it immediately torpedoed any potential relationship. I wish I could find someone IRL and not have to begin online and LDR. But the reality is that its just so hard to find like minded people. Its not like ddlg is this super popular dynamic. I used to get frustrated but now I just accept that being a part of the online community is necessary if I want to find my special little girl. At least I know no one here is vanilla! That's a good start...

[poetdashdaddy]

Yes, it's completely possible! A few years ago, I met a little, and she was the most beautiful and perfect young lady I had ever met. I didn't know she was a little at first, only that there was something different about her, and that she was extraordinarily cute and needy haha. But after hanging out for a few days, she told me she was a little. That she liked wearing diapers and drinking out of bottles, etc. She said her little age was 4, and that she was afraid I'd think she was weird. At first, it was a bit strange to me in all honesty. But, I liked her a lot. That night I became a daddy dom, and I'm sure glad I did.