Littles I has a question for u!!

[littleprincesscamz]

am i the only one who gets really jealous and sad when daddy calls another little “cute”? or they call an actual baby “cute”? pls answer like i get super sad when he does that

[Guest aphroditelaughs]

My Daddy and I understand we're going to think other people are attractive or cute or whatever, but no, I don't enjoy hearing about it. He also doesn't talk to other littles so there's that.

 

As far as real babies? No, this doesn't bother me. We both think babies are adorable and I'm not a baby, I'm an adult.

[neko]

I don't get jealous over it because I'm emotionally stable enough to know the difference between my daddy calling me cute and my daddy calling a literal baby cute.

[littlefemmenist]

you're far from the only one, but it is something to be concerned about — especially in regards to actual babies. him calling another little "cute" would likely upset me as well, because i am insecure about myself and would worry about being replaced. it's something i am trying to work on via therapy.

 

same thing with actual babies/little kids — it used to be that when my parents (especially my dad) would comment on how cute a kid was, i would get upset because i thought that meant that they didn't find me cute. again, this reaction was based on my own insecurities and fears that they didn't love me or love me "as much" as they could someone else.

 

if you have a therapist already, this is definitely something to bring up with them. maybe you could even bring your daddy in for a joint session/phone session. if you don't have a therapist, i would highly recommend getting one and/or having an adult conversation with your daddy about your hang-ups. take the time to really reflect before you do so, so you can have a calm talk and not one where you get really emotional because all of your feelings are at the surface and about to bubble over. if that's often a struggle for you (it is for me!), i suggest writing out what you would like to say beforehand.

 

good luck — you are loved

[littleprincesscamz]

I don't get jealous over it because I'm emotionally stable enough to know the difference between my daddy calling me cute and my daddy calling a literal baby cute.

[Cr33pyHollow]

I'm a very insecure person and I kinda understand this. Although my Daddy is kinda a hermit and doesn't really interact with people, he has (once in a blue moon) called another girl that he used to know beautiful. Honestly, if this is an issue for you, you need to work it out. Understand yourself and why you feel the way you do, and how you can make things better. 

 

Can't relate with the baby thing though, we both agree babies are adorable. 

[Guest Arc]

I don't particularly like when my Daddy calls other people cute, but I don't get jealous because I know I'm his and he will choose me over anyone else. Getting jealous like that is an insecurity thing. You need to find a way to get over those insecurities or at least handle them because getting sad every time isn't healthy. 

 

As for getting jealous over him calling a baby cute? I'm inclined to say I agree with Neko in that I can tell the difference in situation. While not worded perfectly, I agree that you need to learn the difference between him calling you cute and a baby cute. It's two completely different things so jealousy over that is illogical. 

[Guest BabyPeach]

Just ask your Daddy not to tell you if he thinks a little is cute.  He doesn't HAVE to.  He isn't accomplishing anything by telling you.  I prefer my Daddy not to tell me things like that.  I've told him that I know he will think it and when he's out with his friends, go for it, but there's no need to tell ME.  It's not like I would tell him if I thought other specific Daddies, or men, are hot.  I'm not going to be scrolling through Insta and stop and point out a hot Daddy to him.  Why?  Because I think it's impolite and hurtful to say that to my current Daddy.  Of course we will all be attracted to other people at some time.  That's only natural for most human beings.  We just don't act on it because we're in a committed, monogamous relationship.

 

As for a baby, I'm with everyone else......it's just a baby.  No reason to be jealous over an actual baby.

[LittleKitten13]

I do not like to hear my boyfriend call someone else hot, beautiful, cute, pretty, whether I'm in little space at the time or not.  It upsets me and bothers me, because I'm the type of person who would not call another person hot/beautiful/cute/pretty/handsome/whatever to my significant other.  It feels very wrong to me, even if I'm not saying I like them better.

 

About the baby...I kind of agree with the other commenters.  There's no reason to get upset about calling a little kid or baby cute.

[Guest RyleighDeer]

ehhh if i think theyre cute then i dont get bothered but if theyre not cute or i already dislike them, mega brat comes out