Guest DaddyDomJbaby Posted March 15, 2018 Report Posted March 15, 2018 (edited) Well hi... I'm somewhat new to this whole daddy thing and my little loves how I am with her but...I just wanna find ways to constantly keep her in little space or find new ways to make her feel little. This is a long distance relationship btw so it would need to be things that would work in that aspect. We already vid chat and text and talk on the phone and I'm always making her smile. Which already makes me feel like a good daddy but I want to be a better one. So please help and tell me some activities you like to do that I could maybe try it would mean a lot. Thank you Edited March 16, 2018 by DaddyDomJbaby
LittleSweetCheeks Posted March 15, 2018 Report Posted March 15, 2018 My Daddy and I are also in a long distance relationship. When we video chat in the morning, he will ask if I will have "little time". If I do, I will color something for him, and I will take a picture and send it to him. Or, he will ask if he can talk to little when he calls in the afternoon, and I will get myself ready for him. Just hearing Daddy call me cute names puts me in little space. One of my rules it to eat 3 meals a day, so when Daddy checks in on me to make sure I am following rules, it makes me feel little. Also, he gives me stuffies to cuddle with and I think of him. Hope this helps!
Guest DaddyDomJbaby Posted March 15, 2018 Report Posted March 15, 2018 Hmm I like the idea of her coloring for me and she also has legos so I'll have to try that for sure... haven't really set rules for her except for some rules when I'm dom with her but ill have to try that too. Thank you
KaliGuurl Posted March 16, 2018 Report Posted March 16, 2018 (edited) The idea of keeping someone in constant littlespace is ridiculous. At some point you need to be adult and do your life. At least for me, it's not a headspace I would want to feel all the time. Does she? Have you asked her? How are we supposed to give you advice when everyone is different? What puts me in Littlespace doesn't mean it will put her. We can't give you advice on what will keep her happy when we're not her. Also if you're already happy, why don't you just enjoy being happy? You don't need to overthink it. Honestly it sounds like you're already overthinking it. Being a Daddy doesn't have to be super different than just living your life everyday. If things are good, why are you trying to improve that? Just enjoy you're relationship and stop overthinking it. Edited March 16, 2018 by KaliGuurl
Guest DaddyDomJbaby Posted March 16, 2018 Report Posted March 16, 2018 (edited) Seems I needa be more direct for some people As I stated my relationship with my little is long distance...there are times when I'm not able to speak with her and during those times she is an adult as goes the same for me...and with my lifestyle I'm an "adult"for almost the entire day and only have a few hrs in the day where I can be "daddy" and just be myself in general. Plus there are aspects of our relationship that I wont get into because that is personal. With that in mind during the times I am daddy i wanna be able to surprise my little with new little things because she loves that...and if it doesn't work well it doesn't work but if it does it's something more to add to current activities. And to say anything is ridiculous when we're all on a site like this where a lot of people would say this lifestyle is ridiculous is in fact ridiculous in it's self. Edited March 16, 2018 by DaddyDomJbaby
Guest littleloveslars Posted March 16, 2018 Report Posted March 16, 2018 Host movies for her on rabbit. Send her care packages with snacks, craft supplies, toys, etc. Use positive reinforcement: you're such a good girl, Daddy is proud of you. Give her tasks that she can prove she did via photo evidence. 1
kittenprincess98 Posted March 17, 2018 Report Posted March 17, 2018 Hi! I think it really just depends on your little. It seemed a bit rude. But anyways as I was saying, try new things out! Sometimes for me a new pet name will make me slip into little space. As far as keeping her in little space all the time, I'm not sure if its possible but then again it depends on the little. This is my opinion so you don't have to listen you don't like it~ but I think there should be a balance of being little and being big when you talk to her. I read that you meant her being small when she's with you and big when she's not, but my advice would be to let her be big as well! you may learn whole new aspects of her that you didn't even know about when she's being, versus when she's small. It will help the both of you get closer and love each other even more than you already do now. Just because she is not feeling little when she's talking to you does not mean that you are doing a good job or are a bad Daddy. Sometime's people just aren't feeling small and that's okay too~ If you have any questions and would like to send me a message and friend request feel free! I will help you the best I can!
Guest DaddyDomJbaby Posted March 17, 2018 Report Posted March 17, 2018 I appreciate the advice...as i said new to this daddy thing but it's been something she's been into since before I've known her and just recently after a year of being with her she finally tells me... she's shy like that lol... and ever since we started this I've loved having her in little spacr but of course there times where we act as adults but some days just want her in that constant nind set ya know? Idk hard to explain ig but I'll try anything anyone tells me and thank you again for your advice
Guest littleloveslars Posted March 17, 2018 Report Posted March 17, 2018 It is possible that she has multiple mental spaces. For example I have subspace, little space, and an alpha space. I can be big when i need to be, but am typically a little or middle most of the time. You're going to have to research head spaces for the sake of her mental wellbeing and have her help you understand which spaces she can access, and how easy or hard they are for her. It isn't as simple as keeping her always little because her mind may shift from one zone to another without much control. Gl
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