Ghosted?

[Guest MermaidKiss]

Hi all, I'm very new to this life and recently found myself an experienced Daddy. We've been talking nearly nonstop and it's been great.

 

All of a sudden...nothing. I haven't heard a word from him even though I've tried to keep in touch. Like wtf, did he effing DIE, what??

 

Do you think I've been ghosted? What should I do or say if I do hear from him?

[Guest Loki]

How long has it been? If it’s been a few hours, I wouldn’t worry. He probably is busy.

 

A few days? I’d worry.

 

A week? Yeah, you’ve most likely have been ghosted. It happens regularly becuase ghosting is common in dating. It hurts, but all you can do is move on and try not to take it out on the next date.

 

Ghosting may be common, but remember it’s a reflection on them being immature and has nothing to do with you.

Edited March 14, 2018 by Loki

[Guest MermaidKiss]

[Guest SUeB]

ALWAYS wonder about anyone who claims to be experienced. It usually means experienced at talking themselves up while generally knowing nothing that matters to anyone but themselves. Not always the case, but definitely usually. And yes, ghosting is incredibly common. Just chalk it down to experience and move on.

[Guest Arc]

Even people with experience have a tonne to learn because there is always something new to learn. And some people can have a lot of experience and still be bad at it. So I often don't like when people talk about how experienced they are.

 

If you don't hear from someone for one day they're just busy so try not to get paranoid. When it gets to more than one day it's just inconsiderate. It takes less than one minute to type out a message saying something has gone wrong or they're not feeling the greatest and just need a little time to themselves.