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[The Kawaii Kitten]

[Rebel]

You have a few options. One, you can explain to your boyfriend why you're a little and what a CG does. Two, you could see if he would allow you to find a platonic daddy to fill that side. Or three, if he won't accept that side of you and won't be your daddy, I'd suggest leaving him. You will be miserable trying to bury a part of you.

[The Kawaii Kitten]

I’ve tried the first thing, there’s NO way I would cheat in him because technically that’s cheating on him, and I can’t break up with him, I honestly love him with everything I have. And he feels bad about it, he really does, but it’s not his fault that he’s not into that stuff

[Rebel]

I'm not suggesting cheat on him. I am saying talk to him about it before you do anything so that it isn't cheating, and that he is in the loop the entire way if he lets you. 

[The Kawaii Kitten]

Yeah but...I can’t do that, it would hurt him so bad and I’m not really into that, if you have a CG or Daddy/Mommy than you should love them, and I don’t think I’d be able to fully love the second person who would be my Daddy. Thank you so much for the advice though.

[TwilightSparklez]

You have a few options. One, you can explain to your boyfriend why you're a little and what a CG does. Two, you could see if he would allow you to find a platonic daddy to fill that side. Or three, if he won't accept that side of you and won't be your daddy, I'd suggest leaving him. You will be miserable trying to bury a part of you.

If you have tried option1 and you cannot see yourself in option 2, then it comes down to how long do you think you can remain unfulfilled before it starts to affect your current relationship, because it will. So you might have to consider option 3. 

[Mikaitaku]

you can either deal with not being fulfilled or leave. 

[CinderKittens]

What do you mean by not "in to it" - Have you tried communicating with him what you would like him to do? Maybe try baby steps; like colouring in an Adult colouring book together. Or, having him act overly excited whenever you colour something in. If it makes you happy, then he should be able to do it. 

 

Really go in to detail what you would like him to do, maybe he believes it's just purely sexually if all you said was "hey, I like DDLG"

Really get to the core of what being a little is like to you, if he loves you and respects what you need you may find yourself surprised. 

[The Kawaii Kitten]

We got it figured out, and we’re not breaking up.

[The Kawaii Kitten]

Thank you all for your advice though, really