Making fun of me..?

[Hyebin]

Hello! So, I have a question that I've been thinking about for a while. I have this friend who isn't a little or anything like that, but she does know about little space and stuff like that. One day when I was at the mall with her in Spencers (a store that sells a lot of adult things like adult toys, shot glasses, and other random items) and they had some really cute pacis there. I, of course, got them and they were my first pacis. From then out, whenever she sees any baby item, she will always laugh and point. She will always go, "Hey, Hyebin, look!" and then will point at the object. 

 

Is she making fun of me or just teasing? 

[Guest Arc]

She could be just teasing. It's hard to tell because we don't know her and don't know the tone she used on anything. 

 

Talk to her about it. Tell her it's making you uncomfortable because you can't tell if she's teasing or not. Only she can let you know her intentions. And if you're still unhappy you can ask her to stop, and if she's really a friend she will respect that. 

[Mikaitaku]

This is your friend,you would know better than us.

[Stardustgirl13]

wow thats gotta hurt teasing or not maybe you should talk to her about it and find out she may not know how to talk about you being a Little like when people laugh when they are nervious

 

I hope everything works out

 

Here for you!

[BunnyKas]

It might just be teasing. I have a friend who knows Im a little and they occasionally tease me on it. I know she is just playing and not coming from a really mean place because that is just how we are around each other. So it really depends on you and your relationship with this friend. 

[Guest SUeB]

Sadly in this world we often have to keep certain parts of ourselves TO ourselves. Just easier than having to deal with the judgement and ignorance from people who don't understand or accept another way than the commonly accepted one. If you don't mind questions and the occasional "teasing" ( and more than that sometimes), then it's absolutely your choice to share with people. But if you are sensitive and don't want to deal with negativity or all that other stuff, then maybe try not be so open. Its a shame we have to consider that, but thats the world.

[RavenclawPrincess]

If she really is your friend (you have better insight on that than we do) she's only teasing at worst. Also, maybe she doesn't fully understand or feels uncomfortable but is awkwardly pointing things out at the stores that maybe you would like in an attempt to let you know that she's supportive and cool with you being a little? A lot of people bring humor into nervous or awkward situations as a coping mechanism, so that's a possibility as well. If she's a good person she isn't doing anything to be mean spirited.

[LittleKitten13]

This is your friend,you would know better than us.

While this makes sense, it isn't necessarily true.  I'm a very anxious person who struggles to understand why people like me to begin with, and I also struggle to pick up on sarcasm or teasing at times.  Coupled together, that makes a struggle to know whether it's teasing or making fun.

 

To the OP:

I would probably think she's just teasing.  That's something that my friends and I do when we walk by the baby section.  If it upsets you, just talk to her about it.