Alternative littles

[rainbowumbreon]

hey every one big me talking here and i was wondering on everyone's opinions on alternitive littles 

ie

• more black than pink
• tattoos
• piercings
• rock music
• metal

is there any other little that are tattooed and pierced also do you have little themed tatts?

 

just from what ive seen its very ultra fem and girly why im cool with that i like it sometimes being all cutesy but i also like putting some of me in my little kinda mix both of them together it is who i am after all.

 

 

My question is this i have many daddy's/cg's who when i am little demand i be all pink and cutesy even if im not feeling it that day why im all for being told what to wear ect but a total disregard for how i feel at times isnt right because communication is key right? 

its how all relationships should be but a bdsm/ddlg dynamic should have much more consideration put in place so trust isnt broken and the sub in this case doesnt feel like their feeling matter 

is this toxic or is it expected of a little to be pink fairy's glitter and unicorns all the time 

[H4ndlebarD4dddy]

Off course, the whole pink and "innocence" ordeal is something highly desired. But a good daddy takes everything into consideration and would respect it. The main appeal should be you being yourself, your little self and that's it. If a daddy forces you to be into things you're not. Weither it is clothes or something else, it's on their part. Edited March 8, 2018 by Arin

[Rainbow_Pup]

I'm a little boy, and I'm into rock music, I want piercings and tattoos, and I usually wear band shirts and skinny jeans everywhere. I want little themed tattoos, but i also want Big tattoos too. I feel like its up to each person how they dress/what they like. There's definitely a stereotype for littles though, and sometimes it does affect how littles feel, they may feel different or like theyre doing something wrong.

[xpaciprincesss]

While little me is into pink, glitter and anything cute, in reality I'm not all that.. As you say, I like mixing both sides.

I have tattoos, piercings and dyed hair. I listen to heavier music and I usually dress in more alternative/dark styles.

 

Communication IS key in any relationship, and if after talking about your thoughts and feelings, you still feel they are not being considerate towards it, then it's completely on them. I mean, we all have preferences, but that's why people talk about it and try to find a middle ground where they differ. If you both can't reach an agreement, I think it's not worth to keep on pushing and pursuing something that you don't like or feel comfortable with.

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

It would be a good idea to use the search feature, especially in the Little Space forum, because several of these topics have been discussed.  A quick search of the topics you mentioned will return the following results:

 

More Black Than Pink

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/29772-anyone-else-emo/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/16462-discussionrant-cant-relate-to-the-mainstream-profanity-warning/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/533-alternative-littles/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/9455-little-interests-that-arent-so-little/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/10706-is-it-unlittle-like-to-do-these-things/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/18948-not-so-cutesy-am-i-alone/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/4365-embracing-my-inner-wednesday-addams/

 

Tattoos/Piercings

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/30321-tattoos/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/28224-bodmod-tattoos/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/24488-little-tattoos/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/8009-littles-with-tattoos/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/18362-what-tattoos-do-people-have/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/5405-tattoos-or-piercings/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/21543-tattoos-and-piercings/

 

Rock/Metal

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/24821-any-metalhead-littles/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/22994-music-discussion/

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/208-the-music-thread-music-you-enjoy/

 

[rainbowumbreon]

 sorry im new

Edited March 8, 2018 by littletransgirl

[Guest babyblue26]

i can relate to this alot, although i only have 5 piercings and 3 tattoos, i do dress very dark everyday. i listen to a lot of metal and very much enjoy my style, but it does surprise many people when they do find out i am a little. i think it's because big me and little me have very different tastes, and i do enjoy cute and pink things while in little space, but only durring then. i think that if i were to find a daddy who didn't like that we wouldn't get along very well. i think a good trait for a daddy to have is to be accepting and i don't see anything wrong with the two sides of my appearance, but you shouldn't have to feel you need to be a certain way. there is no set way a little must be, everyone is individual in their experience, so don't feel bad if you don't like pink and glitter because you're not required to like that to be a "proper" little

[Guest Arc]

I prefer black. I have five tattoos and ten piercings, and have plans for more of each. I enjoy rock and metal music. I'm not one of the people that goes around loudly announcing "I'm alternative" or "That's so alternative I love it," but you get the idea.  

 

I'm not all pink and cute, and neither is my Daddy. He prefers black, and prefers me wearing black too. And if I didn't like black his preference would be whatever I'm comfortable in because we couldn't enjoy ourselves if one was unhappy.  

 

It's about finding someone who's desires fit yours. If you don't want to be in pink all the time then try find someone who's not into 24/7 pink. Some people don't mind sometimes dressing in ways they normally wouldn't to please their partner, but it's optional. And some people like being forced to do things they don't want (with consent to force, of course). Do whatever makes you happy. Communication is essential. You may be able to compromise or you may just have to say no, and they need to respect that. 

 

So no, being a little and liking black more than pink is not a problem. Well.. the only problem I have with it is the majority of what I own is black. I often lose a things because I put a black thing down on a black thing then can't remember what black thing I put my other black thing on.

[BunnyNotKitten]

[BunnyNotKitten]

[PrincessPear]

I just bought a black pacifier because it matches most of my wardrobe. I was thinking about getting something more pink and cutesy, but I still want to see if I like pacifiers. I like punk rock, metal, feminism, and satanism. I don't shave any of my body hair as a political statement. I feel like it's hard to find other people like me in the ddlg community. However, I do see a lot of littles with piercings. Personally, all I have is a nose ring.

 

I'm thinking about getting a Hello Kitty tattoo.