Being bratty once or twice results in your daddy leaving you?

[PrincessKitten18]

I just made this because I don't understand something..

 

In a long distance relationship, is it really very bad if the little acts bratty once or twice? Is it so bad that the daddy cannot handle it?

 

My last daddy, who was my first, left me because of that. And I don't want to disappoint anyone else. So I'd like it if someone gives some advice. And no, I didn't do anything major like insulting him or disrespecting him. I just..don't feel confident about myself because of some personal stuff and also because its my first relationship. Being good ALL the time is not possible is it?

 

Can't a little feel bratty sometimes? Is it so serious that her/his daddy leaves?

 

Need some explanation.

 

Thank you.

Edited March 8, 2018 by PrincessKitten18

[Guest Loki]

Some daddies cannot stand brats and want their littles to behave. Others love brats and actually encourage bratty behaviour to a degree.

 

You didn’t say whether or not your Daddy agreed to have a bratty little. Did you guys talk it over? He might have broke it off becuase he’s had no idea *why* you were being bratty.

 

Some littles are bratty when they want the relationship to end and don’t want to have a talk about it.

 

It comes down to communication and combatability.

[Guest SUeB]

If he hates bratty behaviour, he has every right to end the relationship. You need to find someone that likes it. Its a simple case of incompatibility.

[PrincessKitten18]

But I have also specified in my profile that I can be bratty sometimes. And no, I did not want the relationship to end. I loved him so much. I always try to be on my best behavior but being good ALL the time is not possible right?

[Guest Poems14]

Um, I've never been in a DD/lg relationship, but how you explain your situation.. I don't think it's really that bad to act bratty once or twice.. maybe he just didn't like when someone acts that way..  Hopefully one day you will find someone that loves everything about you, regardless if you're bratty or not. And sorry about what happened.

[PrincessKitten18]

Thank you and I hope I do.

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Depends on your definition and what this other parties definition is of good. I absolutely expect the person I am with to be "good" at all times. 

[PrincessKitten18]

Well not being rude but, profiles are filled out so that other people can get to know what he/she is like. I don't know why people message me even though I have mentioned I am a bit bratty (a BIT). They give false hope and then..hearts are broken

[Guest daddy_zach]

Well not being rude but, profiles are filled out so that other people can get to know what he/she is like. I don't know why people message me even though I have mentioned I am a bit bratty (a BIT). They give false hope and then..hearts are broken

 

You're right.

 

I often wonder if people actually read my profile info, before they friend request me. Is it so much to expect ?

 

Then If I've accepted them, and we start talking... It soon becomes clear that many of them, have no idea what I've said in my profile !  Even worse when it is obvious that we are not going to suit each other ! That's when my finger approaches the un-friend button.

Edited March 8, 2018 by daddy_zach

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Oh my goodness... that is the whole point of getting to know someone. To figure out what makes them tic and if you're compatible. If you think having a few sentences in a profile is sufficient to know someone or if their initial statements line up with personal desires or something deeper, well, Ill leave it at that. 

 

No need to be heart broken over basic conversations. Yes, you can have hopes of something working out but no need to setup yourself up with unrealistic expectations. 

[Guest SUeB]

I always try to be on my best behavior but being good ALL the time is not possible right?

yes it is possible. Never once would Master get bratty behaviour from His slave girl. Sure, she makes mistakes on the rare occasion, but NEVER by choice. And behaviour (in this context), either good or bad IS ALWAYS a choice. But if your profile was clear, then he was maybe one of the usual crowd who either never read them before messaging someone, or ignore them completely.

The fact is you are not compatible. This was not built to last, unfortunately. You have to just accept that, and actually tell any prospective people these things about yourself rather than hope they've read it in your profile.

[Petitchat]

We only got a small part of the story so we can't really say, maybe for you it was nothing but for him it was far worse. Apparently unpopular opinion, but no, you can't be expected to be good at all times. Because you're human and you have bad days like everyone. Even in vanilla relationships, your partner expects you to be nice, but you can't be nice all the time, like, you have bad days, or days you are sick, or something happened with someone. And if you say it happened really rarely... did he just left you did you at leas talk about it and there were some other problems? Because that seems pretty radical to me. I couldn't be with someone who couldn't accept that I am human and can make mistakes too.

[Nix]

I just made this because I don't understand something..

 

In a long distance relationship, is it really very bad if the little acts bratty once or twice? Is it so bad that the daddy cannot handle it?

 

My last daddy, who was my first, left me because of that. And I don't want to disappoint anyone else. So I'd like it if someone gives some advice. And no, I didn't do anything major like insulting him or disrespecting him. I just..don't feel confident about myself because of some personal stuff and also because its my first relationship. Being good ALL the time is not possible is it?

 

Can't a little feel bratty sometimes? Is it so serious that her/his daddy leaves?

 

Need some explanation.

 

Thank you.

Yes you should feel comfortable being a brat and he should learn when your being bratty and if he loves you he will. but it goes two ways. you need to learn when its going to far and, you might hurt him by contradicting him all the time or what not. Just talk to him to let him know in subtle ways when your being bratty. if he seems like hes getting angry or upset stop and let him know your just being bratty cuz you want attention.

[PrincessKitten18]

Oh my goodness... that is the whole point of getting to know someone. To figure out what makes them tic and if you're compatible. If you think having a few sentences in a profile is sufficient to know someone or if their initial statements line up with personal desires or something deeper, well, Ill leave it at that. 

 

No need to be heart broken over basic conversations. Yes, you can have hopes of something working out but no need to setup yourself up with unrealistic expectations.

 

It wasn't a basic conversation. We were in a relationship.

[PrincessKitten18]

yes it is possible. Never once would Master get bratty behaviour from His slave girl. Sure, she makes mistakes on the rare occasion, but NEVER by choice. And behaviour (in this context), either good or bad IS ALWAYS a choice. But if your profile was clear, then he was maybe one of the usual crowd who either never read them before messaging someone, or ignore them completely.

The fact is you are not compatible. This was not built to last, unfortunately. You have to just accept that, and actually tell any prospective people these things about yourself rather than hope they've read it in your profile.

I am not a slave girl. I am a little. And if I am not wrong, there is a big difference between a slave girl and a little.

[PrincessKitten18]

Yes you should feel comfortable being a brat and he should learn when your being bratty and if he loves you he will. but it goes two ways. you need to learn when its going to far and, you might hurt him by contradicting him all the time or what not. Just talk to him to let him know in subtle ways when your being bratty. if he seems like hes getting angry or upset stop and let him know your just being bratty cuz you want attention.

I need to get over it. He has blocked me everywhere, unfortunately. I will take time to get over him, because he was amazing. But yeah

[Guest SUeB]

It wasn't a basic conversation. We were in a relationship.

But one where neither of you knew very much about the other.

[PrincessKitten18]

But one where neither of you knew very much about the other.

We were getting to know each other. And we used to share everything. Also,as I have said, it was my first time. Maybe he could tell me and make me understand? I was trying my best to be a good little. How will I understand what he actually wants if i am still getting to know him?

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Asking 

[Guest daddy_zach]

But one where neither of you knew very much about the other.

 

Was that really needed ?

You're a great deal older and more experienced than PrincessKitten18. 

I'll resist telling you what you sound like..

[Guest daddy_zach]

Asking 

And how exactly does she ask about something, where she does not perceive there to be a problem ?

If her occasional 'brattiness' bothered him; the onus was on him to raise the matter with her.

[PrincessKitten18]

And how exactly does she ask about something, where she does not perceive there to be a problem ?

If her occasional 'brattiness' bothered him; the onus was on him to raise the matter with her.

Thank you. Still trying to figure out what's wrong with me.

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Thank you. Still trying to figure out what's wrong with me.

 

Why do you assume something is wrong with you? 

[PrincessKitten18]

Why do you assume something is wrong with you?

 

Because I have been looking for someone since ages. And I don't seem to find anyone, or no one seems to like me. So maybe the problem is with me? I am not sure about this..

[Guest daddy_zach]

I'm finding many of the responses to PrincessKitten 18's original question, to be very troubling.

 

A young woman is asking for help understanding what she may have done wrong; so she can learn going forward.

This forum should be an apt and safe place for her to do this.

 

Instead a couple of people 'answering' show no measure of empathy at all.

Rather, are replying by turning the subject to themself and just being condescending !

 

Not nice. Not nice at all.