Dealing with a brats words

[Nix]

Im new to being a daddy but i like to think i'm doing better each day. the one thing i'm having a problem with is my little loves being bratty. Being sarcastic,huffing at me,rolling her eyes and usually not believing me when i say something. she like being told off and wants a reaction out of me. i have no problem dealing with her attitude. but some times she doesn't know where the line is and will still almost scoff at what im saying. To her its cute and showing me she loves me, and i think so too....but after the 20th time she does it,i give her a look and tell her to stop. her response is usually "ya ya". so to me even after telling her how i feel, she acts like its"what ever"and i know deep down thats not what shes thinking but how do i go about disciplining her?or maybe telling her off?

[Guest SamBAMAAM]

Maybe, she wants you to be more stern or needs more rules about respect and how to respond to you. Also sounds like you may not be consistent with enforcement. 

[Guest SUeB]

How does a bratty attitude show you that she loves you? Without trying to offend the brats, because we all work differently, this makes no sense. If you want to be obeyed, her acting against your wishes does nothing like show you that she loves you. Quite the opposite in fact. If you encouraged that behaviour, that would be a different story. So sorry, being a brat to someone that wants it to stop is NOT showing love. Talk to her like an adult, which is what she (hopefully) is. Tell her exactly what you've said here. She isn't a child. Relationships take mutual effort.

[DDCody]

I don't normally partake in it but maybe give her a spanking next time? That could be what she is looking for with all this attitude without directly telling you. If you really want to be real about it you could always ask your partner when she's not in her little space Edited March 8, 2018 by DDCody

[I_AM_THE_SENATE]

Bruh, sit down and talk to her.

Communication is key. Find out what she wants in the dynamic, find out what she gets and wants out of being bratty. Tell her what you want out of the dynamic, what you want and get from being a daddy. Discuss punishments etc.

It doesn't really sound to me like she wants this dynamic to work at all. If this dynamic has any hope of working, even with bratty littles, then there must be some willingness to participate on behalf of the little. Relationships take effort from both parties in order to function. Of course I'm not going to blame everything on the little here, always ensure you are being the right type of dominant for her. Again however, you'll never find out what's what unless you sit down and talk to her.

If the things you want don't align then perhaps it wasn't meant to be but you gotta talk to each other to find out. Good luck bro,

 

ya boi

 

The Senate

[H4ndlebarD4dddy]

Try to punish her with mental torments if she really is a tough one. Tell her to stay in a corner, facing the wall and lock the door for an hour. Regardless of her attitude. It may gain her respect

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

...20th time?

 

What agreements have the two of you made about punishment for bratty behavior?

 

Personally, after the third bratty thing with no correction, I would start losing respect for my partner.

[Nix]

How does a bratty attitude show you that she loves you? Without trying to offend the brats, because we all work differently, this makes no sense. If you want to be obeyed, her acting against your wishes does nothing like show you that she loves you. Quite the opposite in fact. If you encouraged that behaviour, that would be a different story. So sorry, being a brat to someone that wants it to stop is NOT showing love. Talk to her like an adult, which is what she (hopefully) is. Tell her exactly what you've said here. She isn't a child. Relationships take mutual effort.

Thank you i agree whole hardheartedly. I was just confused and was blaming my self that i couldn't handle it when she would constantly talk back.