Brattiness

[Angelicpearl]

Sometimes.I.feel.like.my.Daddy.doesn't.understand.that.as.a.brat.I.am.very.sarcastic.and.that.it's.my.way.of.showing.him.that.I.care.and.

that.I.love.him.He.takes.it.as.if.I'm.being.rude.and.I.try.to.explain.why.I.communicate.with.him.the.way.I.do.but.he.doesn't.seem.to.understand.

If.anyone.has.advice.it.would.be.much.appreciated.

 

Ps.Spacebar.is.broken.hence.the.periods,sorry 

 

[Guest SUeB]

Brattiness to some is not attractive, unfortunately. Many daddies love it, many hate it. You are no doubt correct that he doesn't understand it the way that you feel it. For instance, this girls Master would have literally no tolerance of bratty behaviour. He certainly wouldn't see it as a way to show love, etc. He wants obedience. That's what shows Him that His girl adores Him. Yes, she can be silly, and has a very sarcastic nature sometimes, but she knows how far to take it. Which with Him, is not far enough to ever get on His nerves. If she feels she's getting too "vanilla", she stops. He also has a great sense of fun, but His girl would never get away with trying to disrespect Him with bratty behaviour, and she never would. Thats how many see it - as disrespectful and also as manipulation. Thats just how it is commonly seen by people that don't like it. You need to talk to him as an adult. See if you can come to a compromise.

[Angelicpearl]

I.guess.that's.true.I.guess.I.just.find.it.fun.to.be.told.off.and.told.to.be.polite.and.stuff.or.told.to.apologize.I'm.still.learning.how.far.to.take.it.because.in.past.I.was.allowed.to.

be.as.bratty.as.I.wanted.and.I'd.get.told.off.for.it.or.given.a.punishment.I.don't.mean.it.as.a.disrespectful.thing.I.see.it.more.as.a.type.of.game.I.guess.in.a.way.

 

Brattiness to some is not attractive, unfortunately. Many daddies love it, many hate it. You are no doubt correct that he doesn't understand it the way that you feel it. For instance, this girls Master would have literally no tolerance of bratty behaviour. He certainly wouldn't see it as a way to show love, etc. He wants obedience. That's what shows Him that His girl adores Him. Yes, she can be silly, and has a very sarcastic nature sometimes, but she knows how far to take it. Which with Him, is not far enough to ever get on His nerves. If she feels she's getting too "vanilla", she stops. He also has a great sense of fun, but His girl would never get away with trying to disrespect Him with bratty behaviour, and she never would. Thats how many see it - as disrespectful and also as manipulation. Thats just how it is commonly seen by people that don't like it. You need to talk to him as an adult. See if you can come to a compromise.

[Guest SUeB]

I.guess.that's.true.I.guess.I.just.find.it.fun.to.be.told.off.and.told.to.be.polite.and.stuff.or.told.to.apologize.I'm.still.learning.how.far.to.take.it.because.in.past.I.was.allowed.to.

be.as.bratty.as.I.wanted.and.I'd.get.told.off.for.it.or.given.a.punishment.I.don't.mean.it.as.a.disrespectful.thing.I.see.it.more.as.a.type.of.game.I.guess.in.a.way.

And there are daddies, etc, that see it the way that you do. But it's about finding someone who is like that and who doesn't see it negatively. Compatibility or lack of it. That's all it boils down to.

[Angelicpearl]

And there are daddies, etc, that see it the way that you do. But it's about finding someone who is like that and who doesn't see it negatively. Compatibility or lack of it. That's all it boils down to.

 

I.guess.I.just.have.to.learn.how.to.adjust.to.him.instead.of.him.to.me.or.both.of.us.adjust.cause.like.there's.no.way.i'm.leaving.him.even.if.he.doesn't."Daddy".the.way.I.

would.like,because.he's.my.boyfriend.and.I.love.him.I.guess.it's.just.hard.to.show.him.the.way.he wants me to show him because I'm not used to it (spacebar started working halfway through :III)

[littlefemmenist]

pearl, i totally get what you're saying. complete obedience without question is attractive to some, as it is to sueb and her master. to many others, it is the opposite of attractive! i would find that kind of interaction dreadfully boring, which is why i am a brat and why i am attracted (as you seem to be) to brat tamers.

 

what i would advise you to do is communicate your feelings to your boyfriend, either by telling him just what you've expressed here or by showing him this post — whatever you feel most comfortable with. sometimes it just takes some awkward conversation to get everyone on the same page. i'm sure you'd rather he just "get" you, because i've been there! it would be so much easier if he just instinctively understood that when you talk a certain way or start to brat, that you're not trying to be rude but rather to be playful and adoring. sometimes as humans our wires get crossed. try to talk to him again, and like i said maybe showing him this post will help him understand. maybe there's a middle ground the two of you can find together where he feels you're being less "disrespectful" and you feel he's being more understanding or playful.

 

good luck!

[Angelicpearl]

pearl, i totally get what you're saying. complete obedience without question is attractive to some, as it is to sueb and her master. to many others, it is the opposite of attractive! i would find that kind of interaction dreadfully boring, which is why i am a brat and why i am attracted (as you seem to be) to brat tamers.

 

what i would advise you to do is communicate your feelings to your boyfriend, either by telling him just what you've expressed here or by showing him this post — whatever you feel most comfortable with. sometimes it just takes some awkward conversation to get everyone on the same page. i'm sure you'd rather he just "get" you, because i've been there! it would be so much easier if he just instinctively understood that when you talk a certain way or start to brat, that you're not trying to be rude but rather to be playful and adoring. sometimes as humans our wires get crossed. try to talk to him again, and like i said maybe showing him this post will help him understand. maybe there's a middle ground the two of you can find together where he feels you're being less "disrespectful" and you feel he's being more understanding or playful.

 

good luck!

 

Thank you, that's exactly what I did, I told him to check this out and thanks, at least someone understands xD I was starting to feel like I was doing everything wrong! 

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

You got a new keyboard! Yay 

[Angelicpearl]

You got a new keyboard! Yay 

 

Not a new one but now it's working for some reason it wasn't before lol 

[Guest SUeB]

Thank you, that's exactly what I did, I told him to check this out and thanks, at least someone understands xD I was starting to feel like I was doing everything wrong!

 

This girl (using third person, as Master instructed) completely understood. she was merely saying that if HE doesn't understand or like it, then maybe you aren't compatible. And to @littlefemmenist, there is literally nothing boring about this relationship. There are more fun and laughs than this girl has ever experienced her whole life, lol. The beauty of this world ought to be having an open mind to see that we are all very different, and one way is not better or worse than another way.