Punishments in public

[Princesskim19]

So yesterday me and mommy were in a store and she asked me to grab a grocery item and I was mad that I couldn’t get this toy so I looked at her and said no she then sayed what did you say and I looked at her and said I said no In a bratty tune she immediately walked us to the kitchen supplies and grabbed a wooden spoon and then to the family bathroom she spanked me So my question is do you think it’s okay to punish in public like this

[Guest SUeB]

You weren't actually in public. But if you had have been, then no. Absolutely not. She needs to stop trying to get attention, and to have enough sense and control to wait til you get home. Even though she didn't quite do it in front of anyone, it sounds like very erratic, impulsive behaviour. Not good for a dominant partner.

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

Are you to say no again in the grocery store? If so it sounds like you can expect some spankies. You might have to tell her that spankies can only happen at home/hotels, or where nobody is within viewing distance or earshot if this was an issue.

[workhorse]

Technically you were in a public space but not in view of the public. At least she didn't spank you in the middle of the store... As a daddy, I agree with what she did as long as it falls under "acceptable" punishments. Like is it ok for her to give you spankins normally? If not, their might be multiple lines being crossed. Normally my public discipline is kept to a minimum but I don't think her actions were out of line as long as it falls into your agreement.

[Petitchat]

I agree with SUeB, the problem is not the punishment in itself, it's the public part. There was a post about this not long ago. At least nobody saw you but you need to talk to her about the fact that it bothers you, and the fact that people outside your relationship didn't ask to get exposed to it. Nothing you could have done couldn't have waited for a punishment at home. I know some people here are okay with public things but I really think it should stay private because you didn't get the consent of other people. You may think you are alone but somebody could see you or hear you, like children in the toilet stall just next to yours. It may be a lifestyle for us, but it's still a kink. We should not be ashamed, but we should not impose on others.

[Guest Naturalselectionissexy]

I agree with SUeB, the problem is not the punishment in itself, it's the public part. There was a post about this not long ago. At least nobody saw you but you need to talk to her about the fact that it bothers you, and the fact that people outside your relationship didn't ask to get exposed to it. Nothing you could have done couldn't have waited for a punishment at home. I know some people here are okay with public things but I really think it should stay private because you didn't get the consent of other people. You may think you are alone but somebody could see you or hear you, like children in the toilet stall just next to yours. It may be a lifestyle for us, but it's still a kink. We should not be ashamed, but we should not impose on others.

 

Not once did she say it bothered her, that is an assumption. 

Family bathrooms typically only have one toilet in the entire room, incredibly unlikely that anyone else was even in the same room.  

[Petitchat]

My bad, I thought the fact she asked us if it was bad was because it bothered her, but maybe she was okay with it, true. I still stand by what I said ^^ (and sorry if we assumed your gender wrongly)

[Guest SUeB]

My bad, I thought the fact she asked us if it was bad was because it bothered her, but maybe she was okay with it, true. I still stand by what I said ^^ (and sorry if we assumed your gender wrongly)

Even if you assumed that one thing wrongly, everything you said was spot on.

[Guest Arc]

I hesitantly say yes, because technically it was away from the public. However, I do agree with what was said before about it could have waited until you were home, and it does sound erratic and impulsive which is not so good. But that's just how it sounds to me, not necessarily how it was so I apologise if I have read this the wrong way. If you have concerns I would say talk to her and maybe suggest next time it could wait until you are at home. Also... I hope you didn't put the spoon back lol. 

[Guest ~*~Sachita~*~]

 So my question is do you think it’s okay to punish in public like this

 

It doesn't really matter what we think.  What do YOU think?

 

If you don't like it, say so.  If you do like it, say so. 

[Guest BabyPeach]

I would have liked this very much.  Spontaneity is my thing and I like to be shown I'm not the one in control.  Like others have said though, if you dislike it just let her know in an adult talk.  You also had the right to go adult in the store and tell her that you would not participate in that punishment because it makes you uncomfortable.