Help me. FTM trans little boy looking for mommy

[Joshiebear]

Is it the fact that I’m a trans boy or am I just doing something way wrong bc I can’t seem to find any one. I’m struggling hard and I’ve been looking for so long. I’m starting to think this side of me is just not meant to be lived. I want to be myself but I feel so out of place.

[PrinceHare]

I've been looking through this site for months now, but this post made me make an account for no other reason than to respond to you. 

You are wanted and loved. I know it may seem hard, but together you and I will make it through this. You just have to be patient for the right person. I introduced my "switch" girlfriend to the world of DDLG even though I think I would call myself sorta new still. I knew we would have a few bumps and rough days, just because she was brand new and I am horrible at explaining things ESPECIALLY when I'm in little space. It sucks because it's been a few months, but I still feel like I can't be little a lot and I just am struggling with dealing with it and I'm afraid it won't work out. Just like you I'm afraid that if I leave her and the not so great situation I will never be able to find a Mommy. We little boys just need to keep our heads up, okay? If you feel right being little and if you feel right about wanting a Mommy then just be yourself. It's soooo cheesy, but very true. When the time is right you will find a Mommy. I know it sucks to keep waiting, but it will be so worth it in the end. You are loved and no matter what other people or your own head tell you just be patient and be yourself. Trust your gut and follow your heart. You'll make it through this.

[Guest Arc]

People have preferences, and they are allowed those. Being trans may put some people off and that is in their right. It's exactly like some people have a preference for height/weight/skin colour. It's not that there's anything wrong with it - it's just that some people aren't after that. Just because you haven't found your match doesn't mean you're doing anything wrong. All it means is the right match hasn't come across you yet. Don't get disheartened or give up. Have you checked out Fetlife yet? They have a lot of personal groups you could try, and you could also look at attending local events and seeing who you meet. The right match will come in time <3

[Oliver.nikola2000]

I’m a trans little looking for a mommy too so I understand

[QuirklessDeku]

Mhm, same. I know exactly how you feel my fellow dudes.