Online relationships

[Essie711be]

I've only been in online relationships with ddlg... I feel strong connections with whom I'm princess too and wouldn't talk to them if I didn't feel connected... Is it a real connection or not though? I feel as if it is but because it's online I'm not sure... Opinions? What have my fellow little felt with when having an online daddy or the daddy's with an online little? Do you feel deeply connected or is it like a game for you? I have no judgement just want your opinion and experience!

[Little Illy]

Daddy and I started online in Oct 2016. He lived in Australia and I lived in Ohio (USA). We had such a connection that I am now laying in our apartment in Australia watching TV and replying to your thread.

 

A relationship, either online or face to face can only have the connection you want it to. Do you want it to mean a great deal? Then it absolutely does. You want it to just kinda be this fun little thing, then it does. No one has the right to say otherwise.

Edited March 2, 2018 by Little Illy

[Essie711be]

Oh my gosh that is so amazing I'm so happy for you!!! I want something like that so bad

[Guest SUeB]

This girls first step into ddlg was online only. Lasted a few weeks. But she quickly realised that it was not anywhere near enough. She needed real and physical and face to face. But yes it was fun, and there was some kind of connection there. Maybe more so because online you can really explore things much more safely. You can drop all your inhibitions and any issues with self confidence etc. It's "easier". But she personally sees it as two dimensional. Just a bit of fun. Nothing serious. And certainly not long term (as in lifelong).

[Essie711be]

I personally don't see it as something just for fun or nothing serious... I feel connected and yes it's a serious thing and can be long term... I have a friend who's had the same online daddy for a year and a half now and they plan to meet... It's always serious if you are gonna take the time and effort to have a relationship like this... There's rules and punishments and certain things that have to be done

[Essie711be]

And to say it's "easier" is far from true... In person is easier and always will be... There's the physical aspect where you have the person in front of you for you to tell everything and rules being followed and physical punishments... Online is harder by far In my opinion

[Guest SUeB]

You have put different contexts to the words used. For instance, easier meant merely in the context of the effort involved. No dates. No travelling. No physical interaction etc. Texting is simple and takes no effort. In that sense and others it's easier. In the sense of keeping the relationship going, no, it would be more difficult for many. And by longterm, that was in the context of forever. To this girl, that's extremely unlikely to happen. But again, it's different for everyone. The opinions raised here were simply that.....opinions.

[Guest BabyPeach]

I felt deeply connected to my online ex-Daddy.  When I wanted to meet him in person, he pushed it away every time.  I feel like I had a much stronger connection than he did.  For him, I feel like it was more of a game.  For me, it wasn't a game at all.  It was very hard for me to move on, but I wanted more.

[AdamentorDC]

little sapiophile wrote an excellent answer!  I totally agree

[Petitchat]

I met my boyfriend/daddy online (on a video game). We were not looking for anything serious at all because of the distance but we connected quite quickly. We met with other people who were in our clan (on the game) and we organized a weekend of fun for just us. Short story, he ended up staying a week and 6 months later we're still together. I don't think I would have formed a meaningful relationship with him if we had not seen each other face to face, because I'm a person who really needs contact and physical affection. But it would have been a choice, because we did connect a lot even through texts and calls and pics. But until we saw each other and knew we could see each other again regularly, I didn't plan on building something serious with him and sharing my life with him. We manage to see each other quite often for a LDR (yay for low-cost trains!) but most of our relationship is by texts or calls. We fell in love like this and now our project is to live together as soon as I find a new job.  (edit: forgot a word)

Edited March 2, 2018 by Petitchat

[XmochiX]

My first online relationship with a Daddy did not last long, despite the fact that I felt a strong connection towards him. In the end, it became obvious that I liked him a lot more than he liked me and was obviously still hung up on his ex. So I ended things.

 

On to the next, I guess. *Shrugs*

[BabyBatty0214]

All of my relationships have been online. I thankfully have my boyfriend [Daddy] pretty close so we can meet up sometimes. And i also have my girlfriend [little] a bit farther away, but in the same state, so we haven't met up. I get very attached easily, so my relationships online are very serious to me. I don't want to jeopardize them in anyway.

I've had a lot of relationships online that were horrible and they thought it was just a game to them, but i am thankful i am here in my two current relationships today.

[Guest Mister Grey]

LDR, IRL or whatever is all in about what each brings to the table.  To me any relationship online or IRL can be glorious and it can be pain and heart ache.

 

You think one thing, they think something else.  People say its easier to lie online…maybe, but everyone here has had someone lie right to their face.

 

Can LDR work.  Absolutely.  Can it be a catastrophe.  Certainly.  But is that really all that different from what happens IRL?

 

Some people can do it.  Others won’t.  It’s like anything else.  I myself tend to keep an open mind but I understand the pitfalls.  Go into things with eyes wide open, its really the best we can do.