What is ddlg?

[babygirlrose]

What is ddlg without a Daddy?

 

I was just having this conversation with a Daddy. 

 

so without a Daddy, I comfort myself with a special pillow, a stuffie, etc. 

But I was also told that ddlg isn't about comfort items. 

 

Now I'm confused. 

 

Is there something I should be doing even though I don't have a daddy in order to call myself a mittle?

[CaresAlot]

DDLG is a community fo Daddies and Littles and they sometiems pair up but its not ever required.  I'd still eat choclate chip cookies that had no chocolate chips.  Still taste good and I'd like them with or without chips.  You can most certainly be a Little without a Daddy.  Being Little is a state of mind of going to what is know as that Little space.  Finding the age or ages that bring you the most comfort and enjoyment.  Being Little is about getting to that Little space and enjoying the things you do at the age you feel comfortable with.  Be it a stuffie or coloring or having other Little friends that same age.  Singing songs or dancing whatever makes you enjoy that space.  You may want to be a middle and have more  of that age things.  Some like to do it some of time and some are 24/7 its a broad place and you choose what age and what makes you happiest.  For some there is a sweet spot that age that is perfect.  For others it can be a big span where one day its 4 and the next day its 14 or maybe 2.

Littles on here can and will give you so much better information as its there world.  Lot of advice, so try what you like and find where your Little Space is.  Don't be shy they were new like you at one time.

[Guest Dulci]

Exactly what was just said above. 

I'm a little without a daddy; for me, it's more about the age regression and little space. It's where I feel happy and safe; be it colouring on the floor surrounded by my stuffies, or snuggled up on the sofa with my blanky watching disney films. I'm not a little 24/7, so, I am my own caregiver, and I'm 100% cool with that. I don't feel like I need a daddy in order to be a little  

Every little is different and it really is what makes you happy! If those things bring comfort to you, that's great. Keep on being you!  Don't feel like you have to do certain things to be classified as a little; I don't wear nappies, use a paci or use babytalk - whereas some littles find that's how they feel little. It took me a long time to just be me when it comes to littlespace. 

 

Other littles are always happy to talk about the things that bring them comfort too, so you'll most likely get a lot of love from this post  

[Guest daddy_zach]

What is ddlg without a Daddy?

 

I was just having this conversation with a Daddy. 

 

so without a Daddy, I comfort myself with a special pillow, a stuffie, etc. 

But I was also told that ddlg isn't about comfort items. 

 

Now I'm confused. 

 

Is there something I should be doing even though I don't have a daddy in order to call myself a mittle?

 

While I'm not super experienced in ddlg..

I would say that you don't need to be doing anything else at all.

 

You don't need to have a daddy to be a little. It's more about how you feel.

 

Don't take any notice of 'experts', claiming to know what it takes, to be a Little.. or a Daddy.

They don't know squat !!

 

 

Be happy x

Edited February 25, 2018 by daddy_zach

[Guest Arc]

DDLG is a community, relationship, mind set, or whatever else you want it to be. You don't need to do anything different to be a little. You need to just be yourself. 

 

Perhaps this guy was a silly one-true-way person, or perhaps it was how you didn't answer the question as he expected (giving him the benefit of the doubt here as there is a chance there was miscommunication or he didn't understand). He asks what DDLG is to you without a Daddy, and you say you comfort yourself with things. Now that isn't what DDLG without a Daddy is, but that is the thing you do without a Daddy. It's an action but not what DDLG is (does that make sense?). He might be saying DDLG isn't about comfort items because he was not asking about actions. He might have been expecting something like "DDLG, even without a Daddy, is my safe place/my way of taking care of myself/my escape from a stress."

 

Don't worry about what he said. He was either a silly one true way guy, or there was miscommunication. You are a little if that's what you want to call yourself. You don't need to do anything else