Being told not a true little

[Magpies]

I honestly wonder how people like that expect littles to live.

[Losat]

Some of these posts don't make sense to me...

 

This guy was a jerk in some messages and called someone "fake", alright, that stinks, but it happened.

 

But attacking the person who did it, then turning around and doing the very same thing back to him (calling him a fake daddy, or alluding to "a real daddy" as if he isn't one) is a complete sham and puts everyone who does that on the same level as him.

 

If someone upsets you, it's fine to vent, but don't turn into that person and do those things you don't approve of.

 

Now, as far as the argument he made, according to the quotes; I think I can see what he's saying.  He's pointing out the lop-sided aspect of him being a daddy 100% of the time, but his little only being a little 10% of the time (or however often they go into that space).  If his role is daddy, then he takes care of things - the bills, the maintenance, transportation, etc. all the time.  If the SO's role is little, then they need to do the things that a little should do all the time. 

 

Whether anyone agrees with him or not, isn't the issue, the issue is that there was a daddy and little who were incompatible - which is good to know - but bashing somebody for the spent time-in-space isn't going to do anyone any favors.

 

Be happy that you found someone you're not compatible with, it just narrowed things down by that much and increased your chances at finding one you can be with.

[Cybunny]

He is obviously very new to the scene but that's no excuse to bash random littles for something they can't control like asexuality or how long you're little. I can't stand when men take offense at women not meeting their personal standards, we weren't put on this earth to be perfect partners for you. Some times people will be incompatible but that's no reason to send someone a rude message, that's beyond entitled of him.