Daddy's Friends

[LittleBittyKitty]

My daddy is friends with this girl that he does business with, but he always hangs out with her and gets drunk. He says he doesn't like her but I get very jealous and sad when my daddy leaves me to be with other girls. He's supposed to be picking me up from school right now but instead he picked her up and they are looking at shrimp when I want to spend time with my daddy and not be waiting at stupid school. I've told him that I really don't like her, and I haven't gotten to meet her and he always talks about how she's hot, and I don't know what to do without being a bad kitty.

[Guest infinitecases]

You're not a 'bad kitty' for explaining how this is making you feel.. Having girl friends is fine, but constantly talking about how she's 'hot' or choosing to pick her up instead of you is something I wouldn't be comfortable with. Perhaps you need to talk to your Daddy properly and tell him how this is making you feel and how you don't like how he is going about things so that he can understand and (hopefully) stop any actions that aren't appropriate. I certainly wouldn't be happy if my Daddy were doing those things either! 

[KaliGuurl]

This is just blatant disrespect and it sounds like he's cheating on you.

 

You should really evaluate why you're with this person because it doesn't sound like they have any regard for your feelings at all.

[Guest Arc]

We can't tell you what he's thinking or what you should do because this is really a problem for the two of you. Communicate with him. Tell him how this makes you feel. If he had agreed to pick you up then that's pretty disresceptful and I can understand why you're upset. So tell him that. Tell him how all this makes you feel and talk about it and try find a solution.

[NegansPrincess♡]

You should try speaking with him if it's making you uncomfortable.. i completely understand why you feel this way; i'm sure many little's would. I feel like he may be trying to make you jealous by mentioning that she's 'hot', he probably likes the attention of you being jealous. But please try have a serious conversation about this, hopefully you both sort this out, best of luck! :3

[kittyboo]

I honestly wouldn't deal with that. My partner referring to another woman as hot all the time and choosing to spend his time with her rather than me is disrespectful and would make him undeserving of me. I'm assuming he knows that you get jealous and sad? He knows that you don't like her so that should be enough for him to be more considerate of your feelings. You are not being 'bad' by feeling this way and you need to tell him that some of his behaviour is unacceptable. 

[Guest SUeB]

i was actually on his side, right before i saw he chose her over you, and how he talks about her to you. Oh dear me no. That would NOT be ok with me. And he would be under no illusion that i was even slightly ok with it. Nope. HUGE problem right there.

[Petitchat]

Wow. I mean, it's not that you feel slightly jealous and are overreacting because you saw them having fun one time. He chose her over you, and he disrespects you by talking like that about her even though you already expressed your discomfort. That would not be okay with me AT ALL. I'm all for giving people the benefit of the doubt, but I couldn't stand being disrespected like this. You really need to talk with him about what you feel and what he did, and if he can't understand that a ddlg relationship is not one-sided, well... You know what you need to do, and it's okay to be scared, but you need to put yourself first. Courage

Edited February 22, 2018 by Petitchat