Younger Daddies with Older Littles

[JohnApple]

After doing some evening reading on these forums, another topic popped into my head. I'm a fairly young Daddy at the age of 21, and although every little I've had has either been my age or a year younger than me, a lot of littles I come across are actually older than I am, either by a few years or many. I was wondering how littles and daddies felt about the Daddy/dom being the younger one in the relationship?

 

For the littles: Are you okay with having a Daddy who is, in reality, younger than you? I realize and understand why many littles prefer a Daddy who is older than them. Does it affect the way you look up to your dom? If you don't mind your dom being younger, is there a limit? For example, are you comfortable with your Daddy being a year or two younger than you are, but having a Daddy who is, say, 5 years younger than you take away some of the submissive feeling?

 

For the doms: Are you okay with having a little who is older than you? Just like the littles, I understand why a dom would want a little who is younger than them, as it just "makes sense" and is natural for a dom to want to care for someone younger than them. But, is the "little age" more important and ultimately what matters in the relationship? Do you feel "less dominant" if your little is more mature than you?

 

I want to say that there are no right or wrong answers! It's great if you're a little and have no problem with a younger daddy, or vice versa! Also, there's nothing wrong with preferring a little who is younger than you if you're a dom! Personally, I have no problem having a little who is actually older than me, but I would say I have a limit of about 3 years. I'm really curious to know how others in the DDLG community feel about this, as I haven't seen anyone mention this here yet in detail!

 

Thanks for reading

[Tread]

Well as a daddy dom I think I'd be ok with an older little, but like you they could only be a little older otherwise I think it would detract from the dominant side. Just my opinion.

[BabyGirlDumb]

I think it's a maturity thing, as long as the DD is more mature than the lg. 

Like if the DD has a Daddy Dom personality, and is able to take care of the little SURE! 

[Guest LittleAva]

[JohnApple]

Interesting replies! Thank you to everyone who has given their insight I agree that the most important thing, is how the Dom acts and his or her maturity level, and that it is enough to make the little feel... Little!

 

Also, it's great to hear that there is in fact a younger daddy/older little couple, LittleAva!

[LittleLuna13]

My Daddy is 6 years younger than me, but much much older than me mentally, so it works out well for us

[SnowAndSun]

I am more than okay with having an older little. I've had chats with littles older than myself and found that an age gap can heighten the relationship experience.

[Kitten Cupcake]

I agree with a lot of other littles here, I don't mind a younger daddy as long as he's more mature than I am. I wouldn't say I would date someone who was 18 with no experience but I would date someone who was a few years younger than me who was mature and new the lifestyle rather than someone who just randomly thinks it's cool. Same goes with older daddies too as some are not yet mature or neither have much experience in the lifestyle. So I guess for me it has to be with being mature and having experience.   x3

[Guest Rainbow]

It's hard to say.. my daddy who is 9 years older asked me if we would have the ddlg dynamic if he was younger or the same age than me. I wasn't sure how to answer. I mean, he is just so intrinsically 'daddy' to me. He's beardy with some salt and pepper and has a lovely grey chest to romp on, he wears suspenders and fedoras, has a nice job.. I guess these qualities could fall on a younger guy.. I also know if we found each other at any other moment than when we did, it's very likely we wouldn't have been ready for each other. So that's so hard to imagine!

 

I guess it's possible to have a daddy be younger. But for me, I would prefer someone older.

[LittleFairy]

I'm new to this Ls and the idea is very intriguing. I am much much older but young at heart. if I were looking for a daddy I wouldn't mind him being younger as long as he was an alpha, a dominant, and he was confident in himself. My question is if a younger gentleman would or could be interested in someone my age?

[Guest pixxiestickk]

It doesn't bother me in the slightest. I'm 25 and Daddy is 22. 
He's way more mature than I am, so it works out. 
Most of the time, I actually forget he's so much younger than I am.  <3 

[Guest Elencha]

This is an intriguing topic. Before I knew this was a lifestyle, I always just dated men significantly older than I (10-20 years). Now that I'm almost 40,that seems less appealing and I'm seriously considering the possibility of someone a few years younger. It feels unlikely, but the possibility for the proper dynamic could be there, I suppose. I can't imagine going more than, say, for our five years younger, though. But I guess one never can know what may happen.

[tiny kitty]

My Daddy is slightly younger than me, but definitely an "old soul" type. He's frequently mistaken by others for being older than he is. Our age difference has never mattered to me.

[Guest MyDaddyMyWorld]

I would never have a younger daddy. I just would not be able to take him at all seriously. I wouldn't care if he was "mature for his age". Nope. No way. Not for me in any way, shape or form, but we are all different.

[Xela]

In general, I don't think it's that big of a deal. As for me, I wouldn't mind; however, being that I am in my 20s I couldn't imagine being with someone younger. 

[JohnApple]

Its great to hear everyone's views on the topic! Lately I think I've actually been preferring slightly-older littles (1-3 years older than me) just because I like the idea of being with someone who is technically more mature than me, but in reality, is more little. I know that's kinda strange but hey— I'm a kinda strange guy!

[LittleFairy]

That's what I was wondering. If there might be a daddy that is younger who might accept an older little.

[Ronin8510]

I actually have been really clicking with a sub/little who I met in another community online. She is in her early 40's, I am thirty so I've been pondering this much too.

 

Ultimately age doesn't matter, being dominant or submissive is a frame of mind and personality.

 

Also she is a smoking hot nurse, and the age differnce is kind of becoming kinky to me I think. And older woman submitting herself to a younger man is...kinda hot to me.

[Sixtytwofifty]

Little is a state of mind, not age, as is Daddy.

 

A Master can be Dominate over anyone, any age, shape, size, or fortitude.... that is their choice.

That goes in business, or in any aspect of life really.

 

Daddy is sometimes considered a little less of a Dom, but I don't believe so.

Again, choice.

Daddy/Mommy makes the rules, with or without input or opinion from our littles.

 

Littles are as submissive as they choose to be as well.

 

Age has no bearing on any of it, other than experience... both in this context, and in life.

 

For the same reason a dwarf can marry an 7'4" spouse, or a hairless man be happy with a bearded woman.... choice and happiness are what's important.

Not age, gender, race, or any other definitions.

We get to define ourselves, no matter what vanilla society says, or understands.

 

Love has no bounds... only preferences.

True happiness is out of reach without an open mind and understanding.

 

My 2 cents... spend it wisely.

[kissingkitten]

Im a lil and my daddy is 5 years biologically younger than me. He is much more better at adulting than me. He handles pressure and helps me with anxiety and too much over thinking. Because he can manage me and i trust him to do whats best we are good together. He is mature enough to know when to listen to my opinion yet strong enough to make decisions. It is a huge trust that i have with him. I think that if a partner is well matched to you that years may not make a difference. When i was younger i very much liked men older than me by several years. Now that i am not biologically young (but still a lil) i have found that for me people with "daddy" or caregiver skills dont have to be older than me.

[princesszerrlda]

I'm 26, my Daddy is 21. I constantly fail to remember that there is a 5 year age gap between us. In the year we have been together he has helped me get my life together more than I have been able to since I left home after high school. Age really doesn't matter. It's all about the state of mind. 

[Josh's little girl]

It doesn't bother me I'm 8 yrs older than my daddy. Not that at first I thought about it... We love each other and that's all that matters.

[DaddysWholeWorld]

I’m 65 my Daddy is 54. We have been married going on 25 years. We are in a monogamous relationship. It doesn’t matter that he’s younger in actuality, He knows how to take control and be a strong but loving Daddy. He’s my everything and I’m his whole world.