New daddy, not sure how to keep the my little happy

[Nix]

My little is easy to put in little space and she likes me as her daddy but Im not sure if Im doing things right to keep her happy. I can easily tell when she is getting into little space but Im not sure how to keep her happy over the phone or face time, and let her know Im caring for her as her daddy. New to this and I know Im not the first to ask a question like this. Any suggestions? 

Edited February 21, 2018 by nixstormz

[xBabydollx]

All u can do really is communicate wish her. Its the only way to know. Ask her is she happy, and how are things progressing? u can ask her what things u guys do that she enjoy, what doesn't she like, and what would she like to be implemented? Communication is key and nobody here can tell u what to do to make her happy, or tell u anything to make u feel more reassured in ur role. Only she knows, so only she can tell u. Sure, ppl can give u ideas on what 'might' make her happy, but it is best to go straight to the source so you'll have the best results.

[neko]

Literally just ask her.

 

We don't know what your little likes or doesn't like.

Edited February 21, 2018 by neko

[Guest curiousmiddle]

Here are some tips for littlespace via Phone/FaceTime/Skype

 

Change your tone: Use your daddy voice (if you have one), be stern

 

Complimenting her: "You're so cute/pretty/beautiful/adorable"

 

Use the terms 'little' and 'baby': "little girl", "baby girl", "pretty baby"

 

Refer yourself to 'Daddy': Instead of saying "I want ___", say "Daddy wants ___". "Can you do ___ for Daddy?"

 

Order her to do little things: "Can you color a picture for Daddy?", "Go get (stuffie name)/paci/blankie/other little items"

 

Talk to her stuffies: Ask it how its day was, pretend it answered. Have a one-sided conversation with it

 

Lots of praise and compliments: "Good girl", "You were so brave today", "I'm so proud of you"

 

Ask her simple questions: "what color is the shirt you're wearing?", "What sound does a cow make?"

 

Read to her: Buy children's books if you don't have any yet. Read her a story when you FaceTime

 

Restrict her from doing adult things: Tell her she's too little to do things. Going near the stove, using a knife or scissors, using the microwave, etc. If she has to do an adult thing (if real life make an unwanted appearance), say she can only do it under your supervision, and make sure to be careful. It may be best to take her out of littlespace, though, in case something bad does happen. 

 

 

 

Because you're not actually there with her, it's super important to use your voice instead. Keep talking to her. Keep her mind occupied. I've had many experiences with doing littlespace long distance, and this is what I do to keep my little happy.