What Exactly is a Middle?

[Guest curiousmiddle]

I believe I may be a middle, but I’m not sure. Can other middles share their experiences? What does it mean to you to be a middle?

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

I'm not quite a Little, but I'm not a Big either. I'm somewhere in the [M]iddle! awkward laughing

 

Despite the lame joke, that's kinda how it is.

Edited February 20, 2018 by Strawberry Sprinkles

[Guest curiousmiddle]

I'm not quite a Little, but I'm not a Big either. I'm somewhere in the [M]iddle! awkward laughing

 

Despite the lame joke, that's kinda how it is.

Haha you’re punny.

 

Do you go into little space?

 

I don’t go into little space, and I don’t feel that young. Younger than I actually am but not a child.

[Guest Arc]

Like everything, it's whatever you make of it. There is no set way to be a middle and no requirements to be able to call yourself one.

 

I identify as a middle because I'm playful and sometimes bratty. I don't have a little space and I don't like diapers or pacis or anything pink and sparkly. I'm still daddy's little girl but I'm not super dependant on him. I'm still able to take care of myself and do what I need and want. I don't feel like a little and never did. Middle felt right to me so that's what I identify as, but what a middle is to me will be different to what it is to others.

 

If you don't feel like a little but still feel like this lifestyle is for you... chances are you're a middle

[XmochiX]

I am a middle and I have a little space. For that reason, I describe myself as a middle who often finds herself in little space. As you can see, not all middles have a little space. Anyway, I think I am a middle because I feel like a teenage girl trapped in an adult's body. I just feel like my life stopped when I was 14 and I'm just stuck there mentally, for the most part.

[Guest curiousmiddle]

I am a middle and I have a little space. For that reason, I describe myself as a middle who often finds herself in little space. As you can see, not all middles have a little space. Anyway, I think I am a middle because I feel like a teenage girl trapped in an adult's body. I just feel like my life stopped when I was 14 and I'm just stuck there mentally, for the most part.

That’s how I feel! I feel like a teenager.

[lapetitelune]

 yeah im definitely more of a mix between big and little! being a middle for me is having a younger mindset, but not being solely dependant on a caregiver. i would say my usual headspace is usually around 6-8, but sometimes i feel more like a tween, like 11-12, and other times i feel more around the ages of 3-5. it's definitely up to the person and where they feel like they fit in terms of ages. i would recommend doing a little bit of research concerning child development bc its super useful to see where or if you relate to specific age "requirements", for example speech patterns, actions, dependancy, etc...  

[princessfreckles]

I'm definitely a middle. To echo what was said above, I don't like pacis, diapers, or sippy cups. I don't do any baby talking either. I'm more into skirts, knee highs, and ribbons in my hair. I happen to love the color pink. To also echo what was said above, my mentality is that of a middle. I like doing the same things that I did as a 12/13 year old. Examples: playing with makeup (i'm much better at it now), listening to pop music especially boybands (I have a whole playlist called Little Princess!), and watching movies. Not just Disney, but the typical teen movies like Clueless and Mean Girls. I still have a soft spot for a good stuffie. As a middle I'm more independent compared to a little, however I still need a Daddy to make the important and scary decisions for me and enforce rules that are set. I hope that's helpful!